The Kinky Sex
Sometimes the best way to comfortably use cock rings might not always be readily obvious or easy to figure out. Many rings can come with slight learning curves and are not immediately friendly to first-time users, making them quite intimidating toys to use. Fortunately, overcoming these curves is not hard, especially with the help of a partner and a highly versatile cock ring design!
Some Important Steps
Comfortably Sizing Your Cock Ring
Start by choosing a cock ring that can be adjusted to accommodate different sizes until a comfortable fit is achieved. More specifically, a multi-sized set or one that is constructed with a primary adjustable band is most likely to be helpful for this purpose. Indeed, such models are quite ideal for first-timers. You will know if you got it comfortably sized when you are able to use it for long durations without chaffing!
Equipping the Ring
When you go to don it, the cock ring should be slipped on and over the head of your penis while it is still soft or semi-soft. A fully erect penis is much harder and less comfortable to do this with and partially defeats the initial purpose of the cock ring itself.
Some cock rings feature metal rings or rings that are solidly fixed in place. To ensure a snug and tight fit that will not chafe, perform a careful application of your favorite lubricant. This allows for much greater comfort, especially when you then go to adjust the ring down to the base.
Some penis rings are even designed to slip further down than the base and can snugly grip to your genitalia behind the balls if you are comfortable enough to try it. Lubrication helps all the while. You can either do so via pulling the band or slipping it over each ball separately. Never be afraid to experiment with your partner on putting rings on when you have lube handy!
Finally, when you are finished using the ring, as when first putting it on, allow the penis to soften before taking it off. This allows for greater flexibility with your member so it cooperates more smoothly with sliding the ring off. It is always wise to experiment and increase the size of the ring if any size, in particular, feels too uncomfortable during sex!
Things to Consider
Beginners or first-time users should limit the amount of time they wear their cock rings, to roughly around 5 minutes or so. This allows you to be vigilant for any swelling and discomfort during use. Additionally, it is a great way to assess if you need to make adjustments.
The usage of lube throughout the process of using a cock ring is pivotal, and for good reason. No matter how good the cock ring design is, lube is always your friend in that it can increase comfort in addition to any special effects the lube formula can introduce.
When assessing your fit, note that it should never be stranglingly tight at the base. The cock ring’s fit should be loose enough to adjust to the growing erection. If the cock ring cannot be turned during an erection, it is quite likely you should wear a larger size or take it off and readjust it.
As a word of caution, one should never use any cock ring, regardless of its design or style, for longer than a half-hour. It is critical to apply a cock ring when the penis is semi-erect rather than fully erect to ensure that blood flow can still reach the penis and achieve the desired effect.
Using Before and During Sex
One important thing right off the bat: make sure your cock ring of choice is compatible with your favorite lube! This can prevent you from pigeon-holing to a specific kind of lube you or your partner might not like or vice versa. Additionally, this prevents damage to your toy during the rigors of sex.
A strong recommendation to make here is trying your cock ring of choice for size before sex as a point of good sense. This is quite similar to trying on a pair of pants before you go to buy them and go about wearing them all day. When going into sex, it is indeed a great idea to be able to put it on without the hassle. Indeed, you should be able to put it on in a way that does not break the flow or the mood!
Appearance is important as well, believe it or not. Your cock ring should make your erection appear a bit larger, However, if it is causing major discoloration, you should remove it immediately. This is an irrefutable sign that the ring is too tight and blood is dangerously being completely blocked!
Positions are quite an important factor when using cock rings. When dealing with vibration-capable cock rings, having female partners ride in the cowgirl position or similar such positions is most optimal. This allows your partner to get the most beneficial power from the vibrations during each thrust. Additionally, the tried and true missionary position as well is a prime candidate for making the most of your cock ring’s potential.
It is actually a great idea to use the cock ring more so for grinding action rather than direct thrusting and/or penetration during sex. Doing this allows female partners more frequent if not consistent contact with the cock ring, where it can do its best.
Wrapping it Up
It truly is a goldilocks zone of adjusting at times with many cock ring designs but with careful practice, you can really get quite a bit out of them. It is always a wise idea to carefully consider what you want out of your cock ring as they come in many forms and functions, including vibration.
Some have features others don’t for example, which can serve couples’ needs differently. Overall, With a bit of practice, care, and adventurousness, you can make your erections all the more powerful. This can translate to greater, more potent orgasms for you and your partner and an even more vibrant sex life!
