The Kinky Sex
Anal toys in all their various forms offer quite a distinctive set of sexual benefits Moreover, they are highly effective not just on their own. When paired with toys for other parts of the body and various forms of foreplay, the fun is only doubled. However, because of the fact that the anal cavity is quite a narrow and delicate area, playing it safe is always crucial!
General Guidelines
Initial Things to Consider
Before you do anything else, it is never a bad thing to have a good idea of what kind of anal play you intend to enlist a toy for. Different toys accomplish different things and while they do often have overlap, the overall experience and usage differ. Always read user manuals thoroughly and any guidelines for usage provided by the manufacturer.
If you or a partner have any doubts about medical suitability for safe anal play, always consult a physician before using anal toys. While this may seem an embarrassing thought initially, keep something in mind. Many doctors are consulted for sexual wellness by their patients daily! A little bit of confidence can go a long way. Not only that, you may wind up with some specific medical suggestions for the most effective practices or anal exercises.
Hygiene
Hygiene is paramount in any kind of anal play, and the usage of anal toys is absolutely no exception. When using a toy for multiple purposes or a singular one, they should always be thoroughly washed in warm water or other appropriate means beforehand. Cleaning after each session is also necessary and prevents possible infections or cross-contamination.
When in doubt, remember that cleanliness is pleasure-friendliness! While that slogan will never catch on, a consistently clean anal toy’s effectiveness certainly will. Clean anal toys mean the lowest amount of risk with the highest amount of safety and fun. It can take only a single bad experience or infection to ruin somebody’s entire outlook on anal play in general. Don’t let that be you, play it safe!
Lube Up!
Always lubricate your anal toys before any kind of insertion or even rimming, Every tissue of the anal cavity both inside and out is quite sensitive and dry toys can spell disaster. The anus does not produce its own natural lubrication as the human vaginal passage does. Dry toys at best can cause great discomfort and injury at the worst.
When deciding what lube to use, make sure that not only is it good for your skin if it is sensitive but also that it’s compatible with your anal toy of choice. There are many types of lubes and toys incompatible with each other. The wrong lube on the wrong toy material can cause toy damage or even injury!
Take It Slow
When it comes to anal toy usage, it is overwhelmingly some of the most delicate work in the whole sexual world. Anal play should never be rushed and is best enjoyed when engaged at a savoring pace, whether you are solo or with a partner.
At speed, anal toys can become risky or even dangerous. When not used carefully and at relaxed speeds, they can cause anything from infections to damaged rectal lining and more. To speak nothing of the discomfort it can generally cause anyway, defeating the purpose of the toys intended usage to begin with.
Indeed for beginners, an even slower speed is much more advisable. With a relaxed pace, you will be able to experiment with your anal toy of choice and learn its ins and outs. Risk is minimal and, again, enjoyment soars as you discover your comfort zones and limitations. By and large, couples also benefit from the safety and extended duration. Foreplay becomes more enjoyable and arousal builds up faster as each partner ensures careful usage.
For Specific Toys
Kegel/Ben Wa Balls
Whether for sexual usage, regular kegel muscle exercise, or exercise for later sexual usage, ben wa balls are never something to take lightly. Although they may be mistaken for anal beads, there is an important distinction between the two. Kegel balls are devised to assist in exercising and stimulating the musculature of the pelvic floor. They are easy to use but one should try them out with care to get the most out of them and minimize risks of injury.
Consult a doctor about optimal positions, ball sizes, and techniques with which to employ your ben wa balls. Some preliminary exercises with them can help you get familiar with working that portion of your pelvis before using them with a partner in sexual intercourse and foreplay. Like any exercise, careless practice can result in injury. Careful usage of your ben wa balls will yield many positive benefits for overall sexual health and enjoyment!
Butt Plugs
The back door cousin of the dildo, butt plugs achieve their stimulation ability by providing you with a sensation of persistent fullness until the plug is removed. Because it is designed to rest inside the rectal cavity for prolonged periods of time, hygiene and comfort are crucial.
Before acquiring a butt plug, discuss with your partner what size might be best. Always wash the plug before and after each and every session. It is also prudent to consult the care guide for the butt plug to prevent any damage to your favorite toy! When inserting, ease it in and never force it in as well. As always, try to take it slow and steady to build that arousal.
Anal Beads
Beads are a great way to both tease as well as fill and stimulate. Because of their ball-drawstring design, they can be easily pulled in and out to varying degrees. The attached beads produce stimulation as they enter and exit the rectal cavity; the design is important here. Make sure that your anal beads always have a reliable and easy way of withdrawing them.
Lodged anal beads can mean serious trouble if left in and short-term discomfort if able to be extracted. Never insert more beads than you can presently handle with confidence and comfort. There are many anal bead designs that offer different sized beads from end to end. Practicing with these can help you grow accustomed to different comfort levels.
In a Safety Nutshell
With serious pleasure comes serious business. Because of the delicate nature of the anal cavity and overall area, caution and care are always your friends. This is true before, during, and after all forms of anal toy play. With safety in mind, you can more easily enjoy your favorite anal toys with minimal to no risk!
