The Kinky Sex
Anal beads are a wonderfully beneficial type of toy two-fold. Not only do they offer a pleasing and versatile way to boost the fun of anal play, but they are also great as anal training tools. They are readily accessible to all genders, meaning virtually anybody can use them. There is never any wrong way to play with them so long as safety is observed. However, various practices can not only ensure safety but maximize your enjoyment!
Anal Beads vs Butt Plugs
Unlike butt plugs, anal beads are as their name implies a series of spherical beads bound together on a common string that is inserted bead by bead into the anal passage. Not all anal beads have identically sized beads from end to end. Some have a graduated design where the insertion end has smaller beads that get progressively larger by the end.
Anal beads are able to be pulled out and back in again at differing speeds and angles whereas a butt plug is typically used to passively provide a filling sensation. Beads provide a much more varied experience in most cases. Indeed, it is this particular fact that makes anal beads so ideal as a primary focus of specific anal play activities rather than a secondary aid.
Ideal Usage
Lube Up!
Once you have your preferred anal beads of choice, the first step you should do before anything else is to lube those babies up with a lubricant formula of your choice. Be a smart ass, make sure the lubricant’s ingredients are compatible with your toy. This assures both your safety and avoiding damage to the toy!
As a general rule, thicker lubes are the most optimal. Many thicker formulas are made especially for anal play even, making them great go-tos for anal bead usage of all types. Liberal amounts of lube should be applied to not just your rectal opening but also every one of the beads on the string. Lubricant is like a gate guardian between yourself and unpleasant chaffing caused by dryness. Remember, the anus does not produce its own natural lube!
Insertion
Right before inserting the first of the beads, it is never a bad idea to be relaxed. If you are practicing with a partner, work with them to help bolster your level of relaxation. This makes you more receptive to pleasure and your muscles less tense to work with!
A slow and careful insertion is key to starting out your anal beads session right. As with all forms of anal toys and anal play, it should never be rushed. The first beads should be carefully navigated in; relishing the sensation amplifies the overall pleasure from start to end. Insert as many of the beads as you are comfortable with. Progressive training with them is a great idea, but adventurous experimentation can also be rewarding if so desired.
The anus should be kept spread for each bead insertion, including the initial penetration. No matter if you are solo or with a partner, the effects of anal beads can also be complementary. Focusing on other erogenous zones can create a multiplying effect for your pleasure!
Wearing and Removing Them
After insertion, the pleasure of anal beads do not stop there but assume a more passive role. They can serve as an extra source of penetrative pleasure during sex. They can help in the same way as a masturbatory aid or as the focus of personal pleasure during foreplay. Both sources of stimulation do not work against each other but rather together. They can also be used to train your anal endurance by seeing how many beads you can handle each time.
You can wear the beads much in the fashion of a butt plug during this window of time. However, the sensation does differ a bit, especially if the beads are adjusted or manipulated at any point. With this, the beads can spice up many different types of foreplay, completely alter masturbation, and make regular sex sessions even more unique feeling.
Removing anal beads once inserted are where their true effects really shine. While it is quite powerful of an effect, like insertion it should be done slowly and carefully. You would not want to spoil a great session by ending it with discomfort or injury!
As alluded to before, manipulating them while they are already inside the anal passage can be fun. Anal bead removal, however, is on an entirely different level of pleasure. Your nervous system is immensely titillated by the sudden removal of the filling sensation. As the final beads exit the rectal opening, the sensitive nerve endings are all touched at once.
The most ideal time to remove your beads is right at the moment of orgasm. Either yourself or a partner can do this with similar results. The sensation of removing the beads coupled with your exploding orgasm can send shockwaves of pleasure through your body.
Keep it Clean
Your anal beads should always be cleaned before and after insertion, very much like butt plugs, fingering, and any other type of play, and it is obvious why! Special sex toy cleaning formulas exist, and it is prudent to consult your beads’ packaging for cleaning instructions. Different materials are more delicate than others.
Any anal beads made principally of stainless steel, glass, or silicone can, in fact, be boiled to sterilize them or wiped with a mild bleach to be absolutely thorough. All in all, in many cases, warm soapy water is all you may need.
In Summary
As you can see, there is not much to mastering and making the most out of your new anal beads. They are easy to clean, easy to prepare, and easy to get going to town with. It is always important to take your time and go the slow route. Patience and care are both the safest and most effective methods of going about it!
For fans of anal play in general or those that are entirely new to anal play altogether, anal beads offer a little something for everyone and it is not hard to see why. With these tips in mind, you are well on your way to true anal pleasure.
