The Kinky Sex
Sex is one of the most pleasurable activities that human beings engage in. And in order to even maximize the intensity of the pleasure that human beings derive, we have managed to invent several sex toys. Talking of sex toys, one of the most important of them is the butt plug.
What is a Butt Plug?
Yes, I know that not everyone knows what a butt plug is. If you happen to belong to that category of those who do not know what a butt plug is, this section is for you. A butt plug is a sex toy that has been designed in a way that its function is to be inserted inside the rectum so the user can derive sexual pleasure from doing so. In addition to providing pleasure, a butt plug can also be useful in assisting the muscles of the anus to dilate in preparation for intercourse.
A butt plug is often compared with a dildo but there are actually some differences. The first is that a dildo is typically longer than the butt plug. The structure of the butt plug shows that a lot of thinking went into the design. By observing them, you can notice that butt plugs have a middle section that is relatively slimmer and that serves two purposes. The first is to create space for the sphincters of the anus and another is to ensure that the device remains in place.
Then the butt plug has an end that is spread out so that the plug does not totally get missing inside the rectum. If not for the other end of the butt plug, it can be sucked up into the rectum and even beyond into the sigmoid colon. If that happens, it will not be funny at all.
Owing to the fact that butt plugs are used in anal sex, it is important to always remember to make use of copious amounts of lubricants. In addition to the lubricants that are added to the butt plugs, it is important to be gentle when inserting. In the sections below, there will be more details on butt plug safety.
Beyond all that has been said above, another thing that should be stated relating to the butt plug is how it is cleaned. Whenever you are done with a session involving the use of a butt plug, the next thing to be done is to clean it properly. This is to make sure that you protect your health status and avoid the spread of all kinds of diseases and infections like hepatitis C or the human immunodeficiency virus for example.
On how to clean the butt plug, you have to first wash it properly under running hot water. After that, you apply medicated soap to your hands and also take time to wash them. You should not make use of scrubbing items or brushes to wash the toy at all. This is because in using a brush, you will end up roughening the surface of the butt plug which will end up damaging the anus when you are making use of the sex toy. Even if the anus is not damaged, the butt plug itself can be damaged by the scrubbing. After washing, take the time to dry it and then store properly until the next time you need to use it.
Butt Plug Safety
In sexual activities involving the anus and use of butt plugs, one of the most important things to have in mind is safety. There are several reasons why safety has to be of paramount importance. Sex toys that are inserted into the anus can get missing in your rear. This has to do with the anatomy of the human body. The muscles of the rectum can contract and drag up the object. This can reach as far as the sigmoid colon or even beyond. Of course, it can wreak a lot of havoc in the process.
In order to ensure that this does not happen, the butt plugs are made with flared ends. However, not even the flared ends are enough to prevent the butt plugs from plunging deeper than you intend sometimes. And this can be so serious that you find it utterly impossible to get the butt plug out. This can happen when the butt plug of the wrong size is inserted or when too much force is applied in the insertion. Another cause is when the butt plug is applied too swiftly. This can tear the anus or even damage the sphincter or other consequences that are not too cool for your rear.
In order to ensure that you do not end up with any of these complications, you have to follow all the safety tips. As long as you adhere to the safety guidelines, you are going to be pretty fine.
Selection
If there is anything you need to have in mind as far as safety is concerned with butt plugs, it is the selection. You have to first start by making sure that the butt plug that you have chosen is of the highest quality possible. Ensure that it is smooth and does not have any rough surface on it. There is a reason for this. Any cut or roughness on the surface of the butt plug can damage the thin lining of the anus.
For this reason, it is better to select butt plugs that are made from vinyl, silicone, and rubber. When you are planning to make your purchase for the butt plug, you should make sure that you get only the ones that are made from the best quality materials.
Do not fall for the butt plugs that are made using low-quality materials. Even though such low-quality materials often come cheaper, they are not things you should insert in your anal canal or even use in any part of your body for that matter. It is best that you make do with the best ones that are made with excellent silicone.
Apart from being compatible with your body, these high-end butt plugs are also very durable and you get real value for your money. Never be tempted to purchase the cheap ones as you will end up regretting it. The cheap ones are not worth it, go for only the very best on the market.
Still, on the selection, you must never go for any butt plug that is made of glass or that has any glass component in it. This is because there is always that possibility of breakage and having glass shatter in your anus is going to be a total disaster. Never use butt plugs that have been made with glass.
In addition to all that has been stated above, it is also good that when making your selection, you go for just the one that has a massive base. This is to prevent a scenario where the butt plug will end up plunging too far inside your rectum. That is going to be a medical emergency that you will never want to find yourself in. Since prevention is better than cure, go for the butt plug that has been specially designed in the first place.
Insertion Method
A crucial safety tip has to do with the insertion of the butt plug itself. When you are about to get the insertion done, it is really noteworthy that you do this in the most gentle manner possible. That is not all. You should once again remember that using a lot of lubrication should not be overlooked. Commence the insertion with the butt plugs of smaller sizes, then gradually use those of bigger sizes and do everything with patience. Rushing at any stage can end up with some really severe consequences.
Duration
It is good practice that you do not leave a butt plug left in your rear hole for more than a few hours.
Comfort
If you are purchasing your butt plugs, one of the things you put in mind is the level of comfort that can be derived from each one. Small-diameter butt plugs for longer wear are better as far as providing comfort is concerned.
Your Emotional Status
Remain very calm and confident while you insert and use the butt plug. The less the tension, the better for you. Do not rush at all, no matter how long the insertion takes you, do so gradually. Once again, remember to use a lot of lubrication to assist you in the insertion process. It is better to take time and get it right than for you to end up destroying your anal canal.
Lubrication
To ensure there is optimal safety, you should know that using a butt plug without making use of lubes is going to end up in nothing but total disaster. The anal region is not moist and does not secrete mucus like the vagina so it is not self-lubricating. In making use of the butt plug, there is a need for you to make use of a lot of lube.
If your butt plug is made from vinyl, for example, you can make use of practically any type of lube. These lubes can be water, oil or silicone-based. Without the use of lubes, the anus is set up for destruction. There can be no safety without the use of lubes so if there is any point you are going to have in mind, then this is the point. Safety is paramount and to ensure the optimal level of safety, never forget your jars of lube.
If it happens that your butt plug is made from rubber or latex, then you cannot use oil-based lubes. The reason for this is that the oil-based lubes are going to damage the rubber and latex. So, if the butt plug is made from rubber or latex, it is better that you make use of water-based or silicone-based lubes.
On the other hand, if the butt plug is made from silicone, then you should make use of only water-based or oil-based lubes. Silicone lubes are not good for silicone butt plugs because they damage the surface.
Duration
Butt plugs are designed to ensure the user gets pleasure. However, there are some instances where the outcome can be nothing but pain. This can happen in cases where the butt plug has been pushed in too far or if it has been left inside the anus for too long. What this means is that if you or your partner start to experience pain, bleeding or any kind of discomfort, then you should stop right away.
For those who also feel irritation or swelling with the use of the butt plugs, the use must be discontinued immediately. It was hinted earlier that a butt plug should not remain in the anus for more than three hours but there is a reason for this decision.
Based on the way butt plugs are structured, they can constrict the mucosa of the anus. This is going to decrease the supply of blood to the area and if that continues for a prolonged period of time, the tissue in the area becomes damaged or even dies off. For this reason, you should not keep a butt plug in you for longer than two or three hours. This is still applicable even if you do not feel any discomfort with the usage.
Health Consciousness
Another safety tip is that you should not share your butt plug with anyone no matter what. This is to prevent the exchange of blood and other bodily secretions which are the main medium for the spread of sexually-transmitted diseases and infections. You should never make the mistake of sharing your butt plug with anyone. Your butt plug is just for you and you alone.
Allergy
Some people are allergic to some of the materials that are used in the manufacture of butt plugs. A very good example of this is in relation to rubber. People who are allergic to rubber should avoid rubber butt plugs and even other sex toys that are made from the same material.
