The Kinky Sex
More and more people are exploring the many possibilities that anal play can give rise to. As part of this, learning how to stimulate the prostate is an essential step that will allow you to have the sexiest and most arousing anal sessions imaginable!
What is the Prostate?
The prostate itself is actually a gland that is found surrounding the urethra of the bladder in men, and is only about the size of a walnut. It’s primary function is to help in the development of semen—however, in anal play, the prostate serves a much different function. Indeed, when a person is having anal sex, the prostate can be one of the most important sexual stimulation regions; by stimulating the prostate gland by applying pressure (during sex!) you will potentially find that you have some incredibly powerful orgasms!
Some people liken the sensation to being longer and more intense than a normal orgasm, while other people refer to the fact that they can feel a sense of euphoria wash over them after prostate orgasming due to the sheer power of it. Men claim that it can make them feel empowered and vulnerable, all at the same time, and some have even found themselves crying at the power of the prostate orgasm.
However, it should always be noted that prostate gland stimulation isn’t for everyone. As with the G-spot in women, not all men will enjoy the sensation of having their prostate gland aroused; some might find it dull and uninteresting, and others might find it downright painful to go through! For men who do enjoy the sensation, though, anal play can open up a huge number of possibilities.
The prostate gland itself can be stimulated through both solo anal play and with a partner, making it a great way for men to spice up their sex life a little! Since the prostate is so jam packed full of nerve endings—much like the clitoris for women—some of the most powerful orgasms that a man will ever experience could very well be a prostate orgasm.
Finding the Prostate “P-Spot”
It can be incredibly difficult to find your prostate for the first time, as is commonly seen with women as well. Finding this elusive p-spot is definitely a goal that anyone who enjoys anal play should try to achieve, though; the power of prostate orgasms is truly unlike anything that can be otherwise experienced.
If you are looking to find your P-spot, the best way to do so is to try it with a partner. Prostate massages are a great way of going about this, and finding your p-spot will then open up a whole new world of pleasure and sex play possibilities!
In order to massage the prostate, of course, you or your partner will need to insert a finger up your anus. This requires incredibly short fingernails, due to the highly delicate nature of the skin inside the walls of the anus, so always make sure that there won’t be any sharp or rough edges that will catch inside and cause damage!
First, you should always lube up. The anus is an incredibly tight passage and so applying a liberal amount of lube is the easiest, safest, and most comfortable way of starting things off. After all, unlike a woman’s vagina, the anus cannot produce its own natural lubrication; help it out a little bit and give it plenty to get started with!
The best way to start looking for the prostate, if you do not know where it is already, is to insert the finger to a depth of about 4 inches or so. Gently apply pressure to the walls of your anus at this point, searching for the prostate; once you have found it, you may feel a small wave of pleasure. Some men even get a slight erection at this point, making it fairly obvious when you have found the prostate.
To check, then pull out your finger slowly and gently, taking note of when the pressure falls; when it does, you have passed the prostate, and this will give you an indication of where to target your pressure next time.
To give a good prostate massage, repeat this step over and over. Every time that pressure is placed on the prostate, you will likely feel your arousal rising quite rapidly; your erection will enlarge and get firmer, and you may feel on edge, just as you might if you were about to cum!
The great thing about prostate massages is the fact that this pleasure building step will last for much longer than in normal sex. This drawn out pleasure is truly a great way of engaging the prostate so that, when you do finally have your first ever prostate orgasm, you will be a twitching mess of satisfaction and glee.
Tips for Prostate Massages
Prostate massages can be incredibly intense, but you should always try to take care when giving or receiving them as they can potentially be problematic.
The primary concern is for the walls of the anus, which can get ripped incredibly easily; as such, it is vital that you or your partner has short fingernails when trying out anal play in order to prevent damage being done. In addition to this, any jewellery and the like should be removed, as it would obviously suck to end up losing something special up the asshole of your partner! Any of these jewellery objects could also do a great deal of damage, so the importance of getting rid of them before starting a prostate massage cannot be stressed highly enough!
In addition to this, remember that your anus is invariably where waste comes out. Always try to go to the loo before anal play, and having a wash after will help to get rid of any unpleasant residues. Additionally, an anal douche could be a great way of clearing any leftovers that are still hanging around in there if your partner is concerned about meeting anything while fingering you!
