How to Use a Dildo

Dildos are amongst the easiest types of sex toys to pick up and use right out of the box. However, their apparent simplicity belies their true potential that experienced users are very well accustomed to. Like the spear as a weapon, though the dildo maybe a simple-seeming sexual implement, it actually requires a bit of skill to get the most out of it! Dildo etiquette is very real if rare, depending upon who you ask.

Making the Most of Your Dildo

Whatever your intended use or usages for your dildo are, each type comes with its own massive suite of different possibilities and scenarios you could try. Whether you are solo or with a partner, the following are just the tip of the iceberg. Indeed as with all toys, it is never a bad idea to take some time to experiment and find your own new ways as well!

For Foreplay

Foreplay is not only a crucial part of regular sexual intercourse, but it is also quite often a non-negotiable necessity, and dildos are prime candidates for spicing foreplay up. One of the very first and perhaps most obvious uses for your dildo is to tease and prod entrances. For many lesbian couples especially, the dildo is a crucial toy in such a manner.

Experimenting with various angles, prodding and rubbing speeds can go miles when it comes to evolving your teasing into something unique to you and your partner’s practice. When your dildo is a vibration-capable kind, this adds a whole new dynamic. Experiment with different speeds and frequencies to get the right mode at the right time!

For many couples, your dildo offers the perfect candidate for arousal-building before regular sex. When employed late into the foreplay and right before hitting that final base, it can get the arousal level up to maximum without physical penetration from any actual body part yet.

When using your dildo for teasing and arousal-building, try combining it with other forms of physical stimulation such as petting, breast play, or additional toys. The extra dynamic layer to the foreplay can blow one’s mind before the true sex has even begun.

Another great idea is for both partners to use separate dildos in unison, watching each others’ mutual arousal build as their endurance is tested before regular sex. If your dildos get you both that aroused, imagine how your final orgasm will be by the end of sex!

Building off of that, dildos can also be paired with porn. That’s right, porn! Watching yours and your partner’s favorite porn while using your dildos can sometimes bolster want. In theory, the arousal from watching porn merges with the arousal generated by the dildo. When it works, the resulting mega-arousal and resulting orgasm down the line are something to behold.

For Sex

One immediate benefit of the addition of dildos to mainline sexual intercourse is its ability to be used in virtually any human sexual position possible. This is due largely to its portable nature. Again, experimentation can go miles in finding the most optimal angles and other adjustments to make while using your dildo in the heat of the moment.

Dildos offer an amazing option that normally can only be achieved by having two male partners involved: double penetration! During anal or vaginal penetration, the dildo can be used to insert and fill the remaining hole for complete double penetration. When you combine this with different positions and direct stimulation, you are in for a treat.

Mind-blowing orgasms are all but assured when you have achieved and discovered the most optimal thrusting angles for you and your partner and at what times. Practice always makes perfect, and taking care of your dildo is also a great way to get the best performance. Practicing good maintenance and care with your favorite dildo can ensure that users always remain at the tip-top form and maximum possible pleasure.

Another great way to employ dildos is in stationary locations and strap-ons. Strap-ons open up exciting new uses for dildos by gay, bisexual and heterosexual couples alike. Meanwhile, sybians and dildo mounts exist that allow a person to ride one in-place. The stationary thrusting is a great pairing with various types of roleplay and body stimulation.

For Masturbation

For female users, dildos offer one of the most potent go-to options for both immediate and prolonged sexual stimulation alike. Different sizes can achieve different results at different times, so it is a good idea to experiment with your dildo or dildo collection. This allows you to further narrow down your favorites versus your favorite positions.

Breast, clitoral, and anal stimulation while using your dildo to masturbate acts as a brilliant force multiplier. The resulting orgasm will be more powerful, more memorable, and more toe-curling. One idea to consider is using different dildos to gauge your endurance level before settling on a specific dildo with which to fully go to town on.

When using dildos strictly for masturbation, it is worthwhile to switch them out on some regular pattern or at random as so desired. This can help ensure a wider diversity of dildo sensation experiences. As a result, your favorite dildos should take much longer to become so mundane that they just don’t do it as well as they used to, if at all,

One great technique for using your dildo in masturbation is to simulate teasing often seen in average coupes foreplay. Rimming, teasing, and prodding yourself with your artificial donger of choice can really get the juices flowing before you fully dive in. Circular motions and different angles and posture combinations can produce different sensations. Oftentimes, some positions are also better than others for reaching your erogenous zones during thrusts.

Wrapping it Up

As you can see, dildos can be a precise and versatile instrument no matter if they are vibration-capable or not! Far from mere slide in and out creations, when paired with different activities, foreplay, and bodily stimulation, they reveal their true colors as force multipliers.