The Kinky Sex
Fleshlights have, for a long time, been a versatile yet easy to use sex toys. Despite this, though, it might not always be immediately apparent how to use your fleshlight to get the most out of it. Fortunately, learning how to use a fleshlight doesn’t need to be difficult!
Fleshlights: The Basics
For beginners, using a fleshlight is quite a straightforward lubing up and insertion. However, there are additional things that can be done to make things more dynamic. A toy that can do more is a toy that is more worth your time, after all!
Preparation
For starters, you may want to consider warming your new fleshlight up to a comfortable temperature. While they are tailored to closely mimic and simulate human anatomy, there is no body heat. Body heat is, of course, a huge influencer during sensual play. The simple application of warm water from your sink for a handful of minutes should do the trick. This will instantly transform the feeling and functionality of your toy right from the start!
Once your fleshlight is heated, next it is a good time to begin applying your favorite lube of choice. It should absolutely be emphasized that only water-based lubricants should be used. Experiment with the various types of water-based formulas to see which one you prefer if you do not already have a go-to water lube in mind.
As a basic rule, thicker lubes tend to dampen the intensity of built-in texture, so for most the likely solution is a formula with an intermediate thickness. Finding the right water lube for you can help make a great difference in your pleasure output and overall experience.
Usage
The first usage method is the obvious hand-based stroking. This method requires no skill at all but can take a bit of experimenting and practice to get them ost out of it. there is, of course, a drawback to this. The main drawback is holding such bulky toys for a long period of time. Wrist pain can be annoying indeed! However, the hand stroke method does offer the user greater control over speed and angle, allowing you to find that sweet spot.
Some fleshlights are able to be used with hands-free equipment if you prefer. In particular, mounting cushions with dedicated sockets for fleshlights are great choices. Dolls are also very robust stationary methods of using your fleshlight in new and exciting ways.
There are also some simple yet clever DIY methods of using your fleshlight hands-free. One example is an arrangement where the fleshlight is inserted into a secure and narrow confine like a pile of pillows or similar items. While this may be a little fiddly, it is highly cost-effective and takes no time at all to gather materials.
You will notice that your fleshlight model has two end caps. One serves a protective role on the outer layer while the inner one acts as a modifier. This interior end cap adjusts suction and pressure, so experimenting with it is always worth a try!
Cleaning and Care
After each use, you should always be sure to clean your fleshlight thoroughly in warm water. When you have finished cleansing it, leave it out to dry in a warm, safe location. It is imperative to never use soap during cleaning and to never turn the sleeve inside out. The toy should never be put in front of an extreme heat surface such as a radiator or heating element. The patented skin is quite delicate and can be damaged in these conditions.
Conversely, heating at low-level temperatures is an ideal way of boosting fleshlight effectiveness. It can be safely done by either conventional warming in warm, clean tap water or via a USB warming rod compatible with your fleshlight.
One trick for bolstering performance is to apply liberal amounts of sprinkled cornstarch onto the sleeve. This helps maintain its realistic texture on the inside, ensuring that it stays as stimulating as the day you took it out of its packaging. One should never use baby or talc powder however at any stage of fleshlight maintenance.
Cleaning is best done with isopropyl alcohol, and soap should always be avoided. The usage of soap damages the fleshlight’s proprietary soft skin and can induce burning sensations in some skin types.
Making the Most of Your Fleshlight
A heated fleshlight is arguably the best fleshlight. Emulating body heat gives your fleshlight a distinctive edge in the worlds of authenticity and overall enjoyment. When warming, the sleeve should never be boiled. Indeed, a regular bowl of warm tap water can similarly achieve the same body heat-mimicking effect with even less risk to the fleshlight!
This very same bowl can pack even more usage in resourceful hands. The warm water can be used as a means of heating up the lubricant you intend to use. This removes any element of cold that can help reduce the heat you were already inducing in the toy anyways as a bonus. Warm lube will make the fit more snug and stimulating overall.
Liberal amounts of lubricant are a crucial key to ensuring the smoothest possible glide and the most intense penetration. It is often the most effective when applied to not only the fleshlight but also the shaft and head of the penis as well if desired. When you combine all of that with the suggested heating methods, it is no surprise why fleshlights can be such lauded sex toys and masturbatory tools.
Final Things to Consider
With a little bit of practice, virtually anybody can master the fleshlight and discover the ideal ways to get the most out of their favorite sex toys. Fleshlights are easy to pick up and go to town with and are very easy to prepare for use. This makes them a great choice of sex toy for many people, so why would you wait to get yours?
