The Kinky Sex
Human beings are creatures of emotions and it is no surprise that relationships form some of the most interesting topics on the planet today. Talking of relationships, they come in different forms. In this piece, the focus is going to be on the type of relationship known as long-distance relationships and the sex that comes with it.
Also referred to as LDR or long-distance romantic relationship (LDRR), this is a sexual and romantic relationship between lovers. The distinguishing factor with this type of relationship is that those in the relationship are not in the same location, they are apart and cannot meet physically. LDRs are more widespread than most people actually think.
What is Long-Distance Sex?
Okay, as it has been stated above that in a long-distance relationship, the lovers are not even in the same place, not a few people will ask how sex is even possible. But the interesting thing is that it is possible and that is what is referred to as long-distance sex and that is what is going to be discussed in this piece.
Importance of Long-Distance Sex
The fact that lovers are not together in the same city or country does not mean they should not enjoy all the sexual pleasures that those who can meet face-to-face also enjoy. Even though sex is not obligatory to make a relationship survive but if there are ways a couple can achieve sexual pleasure even while staying in different places, nothing should stop them.
Of all the forms of sex that we have today, long-distance sex is probably the latest and one of the most recent. This is because a significant part of it is dependent on modern technology. For those who think that being in a long-distance relationship means that such partners cannot have sexual pleasure, this is one piece that is going to change that perception. If you happen to be a writer or even familiar with modern tech gadgets and other similar items, then there are so many ways you can engage in long-distance sex. All you just need to do is to make sure that you are very creative.
So if you are one of those considering entering a long-distance relationship or maybe you are even in one already but you are concerned about sexual desires, you have nothing to worry about. This can be so intense and pleasurable that you can even get to enjoy your sexual lives even more than those who happen to see daily. This is because the techniques of long-distance sex are that efficient and excellent.
How to Conduct Long-Distance Sex
After discussing the importance of long-distance sex, the next step is going to be on discussing ways by which the different techniques of long-distance sex can be conducted. These are as follows:
Remote-Controlled Vibrator
Technology has truly made life a lot easier for everyone and this also applied to the aspect of sex and relationships. Remote-controlled vibrators are some of the best devices that you can make use of. With this type of vibrator, you can both exchange and enjoy sexual desires even across distance.
For instance, if you are in a relationship with a man, there is a remote-collected masturbation device that you can use. There is also a similar one that has been crafted for the ladies. In a situation where the relationship is between a man and a woman, these remote-controlled devices are of immense assistance. In fact, for the highest level of sexual interaction, the two devices can be synced together and the couple will enjoy the maximal pleasures as they titillate each other over distance. That is one major advantage or benefit that technology has brought to our relationships.
Using Software Applications
One of the best ways to spice up a long-distance relationship is to make use of the appropriate apps. Yes, there are mobile applications that have been specially designed for people in long-distance relationships. With these apps, you can engage in all the sexting in the world and still ensure the messages are kept safe and confidential.
On these apps, you can engage in all the explicit sexual communication that you want. From videos to audios to texts, there is just no limit to the amount or type of erotic data that you can exchange between each other. You can make it as hot and spicy as you want. Remember, it is all about creativity – the more creative you are, the more amazing the experience is.
Assign Sex Lessons
Although masturbation is an amazing thing you can enjoy alone, whenever you are in a relationship, it is not all about you alone. Therefore, you have to start engaging in joint sex lessons. For example, you can start assigning masturbation tasks to each other. This is how you do it – you can fix times to do masturbation with toys but the most important thing is that both of you get to do masturbation together.
While doing this, you can be on a video call or on phone in constant communication with each other saying all the dirty talk you can think of. You will be amazed to know how wonderfully pleasurable this practice can be. The more you are able to assign such sexual tasks for yourself, the deeper the bond between you both. In fact, another version of a sexual task is to take your bath together with your video call feature on. The mere acts of seeing each other undress and naked is a really stimulating experience.
Sex Prose
Well, not all types of long-distance sex are electronic or digital in nature. In fact, this particular style does not even involve electronic gadgets. Writing sexy letters to each other or mailing your sexiest photos by post is a very sensual thing to do. If you try it, you will see that you will become addicted in no time.
Imagine getting a mail from the post office only for you to discover that it is nothing but a letter full of erotica sent thousands of miles by your lover. Nothing can compare with the rush of excitement, joy, and pleasure that you are going to experience at that point.
Sexting, Sexting, and More Sexting
If there is any aspect of long-distance sex that you must always pay sufficient attention to, then it has to be sexting. Apart from being very easy, sexting is one way to unleash your powers of creativity in the most erotic and passionate ways possible. Fire each other sexy and raunchy messages all day long. Hold nothing back as you are engaging in this. Apart from the excitement that comes with each sex-laden message, it also ensures that you are always thinking of each other.
Games and More Games
Another move that can be made here is the incorporation of all kinds of games. The thing is that the games have to be erotic and both of you should find time to play them together. Fortunately, there are several games that are specifically designed for lovers who are apart. Download these games and add real vigor to your love life.
Watch Porn Together
If there is another really spicy dimension to long-distance sex then it is definitely going to be the two of you watching some really steamy porn together. Technology has really made this very easy, all you need to do is to set up joint calls and share the links and enjoy all the passion together. The experience is indeed a very intense one and once you start it, you will not want to go back on it at all.
Use Kissenger
For those who are yet to hear of Kissenger, it is the first mobile kiss messenger in the world. With it, you are able to transmit your kiss impulses to your lover anywhere on the planet. To make use of it, all you need to do is to hook up your mobile phone to the Kissenger kit and blow your lover a kiss over the Internet.
On the other end of the connection, your lover is also able to feel your kiss and perceive the sensation. Do you know the best thing about this? Everything happens in real-time. This is definitely one feature you must incorporate into your long-distance sex schedule.
Phone Sex
Ha, the classic phone sex! Even before the advent of the Internet, one thing that lovers in different places have always engaged in is phone sex. This time-tested, reliable and efficient strategy is also one that you can engage in. In order to make it even a lot more interesting, add a tinge of surprise and suspense to it. Call your lover when he or she least expects and start talking dirty. Another thing you can do is to leave some of the sexiest voicemails for your partner. Phone sex works every time and if you are in a long-distance relationship, you should not even think twice before you adopt it. Another variant of this is when both of you choose to exchange audio recordings. This is one effective way to have your lover thinking all day about you and vice versa.
Skype
Yes, of course, Skype! Are you tired of phone calls and you really want to get dirty and see each other? Then Skype is your best bet. Call each other live and watch as you explore every single part of your body. Using Skype in long-distance sex has this very special and unique appeal to it – one that you cannot understand until you experience it. Another variant to this method is not to do live video sessions but to actually send and exchange short video clips to each other.
Nudes
Well, there is no way long-distance sex can be complete without mentioning nudes. Exchanging nude photos are some of the most efficient ways to maintain the vitality of the relationship. However, do not just take the photos and send them without thinking, ensure that some level of creativity goes into everything. The more creative you are able to get with all these moves, the better for you, your partner and of course the relationship itself.
Perform Wonders with Your Sex Songs
Both of you should have sex songs that you share from time to time and enjoy together. However, there is even a lot more that you can do with those erotic songs than just share them. For instance, you can listen to these songs when both of you are enjoying a passionate session of masturbation or video sex together. So do not just hum along to those songs, play them out when you are getting very naughty with each other.
Exchange Sex Toys
One of the most considerate ways to explore with long-distance sex is for you to get gifts of sex toys and send over. Since your partner is also going to be engaged in some lusty sessions of masturbation, it will not be a bad idea if you get him or her some sex toys, lubricants and other items that will make sexual life a lot easy easier and more fun for your significant other. So, now that you know, start thinking of the items that you can buy and package as very sexual gifts to surprise your lover on the other side of the world. You can order online and they do doorstep delivery.
Be Strategic
Well, even though you are apart, you may have the chance to see each other once in a while. Now, if there is that possibility of both of you seeing each other, then you should be very strategic about it. You should plan ahead of time and discuss all the sex positions and styles that you are going to explore once you are in each other’s arms again. The suspense that will build up in both of you as you look forward to seeing each other is another very romantic angle to the whole relationship.
