The Kinky Sex
Let’s face it: one of the biggest joys associated with having sex is being able to orgasm, right? Orgasming is one of the biggest goals that many couples will aspire to achieve with their sex lives, and improving the intensity of these orgasms is thusly imperative if a person is to ensure that they are getting the most out of each and every sex session!
The key to the best possible sex is having more intense orgasms—that’s something that most people will probably agree with. However, having a more intense orgasm isn’t quite as easy as it sounds; unfortunately, there isn’t a button that can be flicked in order to turn up the power of a person’s orgasm. There are, however, a number of different ways in which we can work to make sure that each and every orgasm is of an intensity the likes of which we have never felt and experienced before!
So, how do we get more intense orgasms? Do you know how to have more intense orgasms with your partner or when using sex toys?
Having more Intense Orgasms
Orgasming is the ultimate aim of almost any sex session between partners, due to the immense levels of satisfaction and pleasure that orgasming can stimulate. Indeed, someone who has never before orgasmed is truly missing out on something quite special—but, for someone with a little more experience in orgasming, the next stage on should always be to refine the craft so as to have even more powerful and intense orgasms! After all, the more intense the orgasm, the better the overall experience!
Intense orgasms are harder to achieve than a mild orgasm, but they are entirely possible if you take the time to ensure that you will be able to work for that goal. Indeed, orgasming powerfully sometimes only takes a few small changes to your normal sex routine in order to amplify the intensity!
Multiple Orgasms
One of the easiest ways for a person to have a more intense orgasm is to instead have numerous different orgasms at once, amplifying the intensity of the sensation to a huge degree. Indeed, there are actually a number of different types of orgasms. Having two or more of these orgasms at once is sure to leave you feeling thoroughly satisfied!
The most common orgasms that a woman will have are vaginal and clitoral orgasms. However, these are far from the only types of orgasms that are possible; women can also have anal and
Use Lube!
Using lube is a great way to enhance the quality of your sessions, thereby increasing the chances of you having a powerful and mind blowing orgasm at the end of it all! Lube is not only great for making things slide more easily but will also help your partner to hit all of those sensitive spots inside, which will help you to have a sex session that will conclude in a far more intense orgasm than you might have if you don’t normally use lube!
Take a Break
While it might seem counterproductive for us to recommend that you stop having sex if you want to have more powerful orgasms, this theory is actually a highly recommended one. Indeed, if you want to have a more powerful orgasm, try to time your sex sessions a few days apart at least, with no masturbation in between either. Giving your body the chance to “cool down” and rest will allow you to feel far more sensitive when the time comes for your next sex session and, hopefully, the climax that you achieve will also be incredible.
Make Sure You’re Turned On!
While this might seem obvious, it is actually quite surprising how many people are only going into sex half heartedly—and this is not the way to achieve intense orgasms! Indeed, if your mind isn’t in it then you won’t be as focused on the task at hand, and will struggle to even achieve a semi respectable orgasm.
Instead of rushing through things, take the time to ensure that you and your partner have had ample amounts of arousal; make foreplay last longer and be a lot more cuddly and sensual with your partner, in the run up to your big session; doing so will allow both of you to get in the mood and will trigger the release of the hormone, oxytocin—which will give you a great chance of having a far more satisfying conclusion to the night’s activities.
Remember, foreplay isn’t some sort of checklist to be ticked off. There is no exact way to ensure that both you and your partner are fully aroused and ready for action; the best way to get the best results from your foreplay is to simply work with one another to learn about your different likes, dislikes, and abilities; doing so will allow you to act spontaneously in the moment to give the best possible foreplay!
Ensuring that you are turned on during sex is also just as important as the foreplay. Communicate with your partner and let them know what to do and what not to do to help you have the best possible sex session; by doing so, you will be able to have the best chance imaginable of having the intense orgasm that you always dreamed of.
Don’t be Disheartened
Sex isn’t all about the orgasm, but it is an incredible benefit that many people love to be able to experience. As such, it is important to remember that not everyone will be able to target stronger and more intense orgasms at will—and if you don’t find that your orgasms are stronger when following these tips, then don’t give up!
Sometimes, the best way to enhance your sex life is simply to smile and try again another day—after a short break, of course. You might then find that your body is far more cooperative and will give you the tidal wave of pleasure that you had been hoping for. And if not? Why worry—you can try again, after all.
