The Kinky Sex
When it comes to having an active and satisfying sex life, one of the best things that you can do is to ensure that you last as long as possible for your partner. Indeed, extending the duration of your sex sessions is an easy way for you to improve your sex life; after all, who wouldn’t want a session to last longer than it does at present?
Drawing out your pleasure during a session doesn’t need to be hard; in fact, there are a number of simple tricks that you can follow during your session to help you have the longest sessions possible!
Why to Last Longer
There are many different ways in which you can help your body to hang on to the pleasure and last longer for your partner. This can be important for people who find that they are hitting their peak long before their partner does, thusly making it hard for them to allow their partner to reach a climax as well.
After all, sex is a partner task; it is important that both parties in a relationship strive to allow one another to have a great sex session every time, but neglecting one person’s needs so that they cannot climax is not the way to form the basis for a strong and stable relationship, especially once things become heated.
How to Last Longer for your Partner
Lasting longer for your partner will help you to adequately pleasure both them, and you. By working to ensure that you don’t climax too quickly, you will be able to adequately ensure that both you and your partner experience a world of pleasure in every session, strengthening your relationship and making sex a mutually beneficial task for both of you!
Generally speaking, when people talk about lasting longer in bed, the focus will be on the man to last longer; indeed, most commonly, the woman in the relationship will usually be able to keep up with her partner’s needs, but men often have a little more trouble sometimes ensuring that they don’t reach their peak before their partner.
After all, if you cum long before she does then you will likely leave her waiting desperately for more; a good partner should never try to leave his partner in this unsatisfied state, and extending the duration that you are able to last will help you to do so!
So, how can you last longer for your partner for a sex session that will be mind blowing?
Take Turns During Sex
One of the best ways to draw out your sex session and last longer is to take turns when it comes to pleasuring eachother. Instead of pleasuring each other simultaneously, take time to worship her body—and then let her do the same for you. This will help you to last longer in bed and, hopefully, long enough to ensure that you can adequately satisfy her as well as yourself.
Let Her be in Control
If you struggle with controlling yourself and find that you often end up climaxing long before she does then you might want to try giving her a little more control over you. By letting your partner control the session, especially if she is on top, you will often find that you will be able to last longer. When your partner is on top of you, you won’t be able to thrust as quickly; this will help you to last longer so as to allow her to reach her climax at around the same time as you do!
Go Slow
One of the best ways to get yourself to climax is to thrust hard and fast—so, naturally, if you are trying to last longer for your partner then it is essential that you instead take things slow. Allowing her to take charge will naturally slow things down compared to thrusting yourself, or otherwise, just make sure to control yourself as much as possible so as to slow the rate of your arousal.
While hard and fast thrusting is the most pleasurable for you, if you are focused on pleasuring your partner then going slow is essential for allowing you to maintain your endurance for as long as possible.
Another alternative to “go slow” method is to instead practice stop-start sex. While somewhat frustrating for yourself, this technique will be a great way for you to carry on for longer. Every time that you feel yourself getting close to orgasm, pull out or stop moving for a few seconds until the pressure subsides; at this point, you will then be able to carry on for longer, allowing her to get to the stage of climaxing as well.
Strengthen your Muscles
Invariably, when you cum is controlled by a series of powerful muscles in your penis—and strengthening these muscles will allow you to hold on for as long as you possibly can. While this alone might not be enough to help you keep going for huge lengths more time, it will prolong the duration of a session either way and will help you to keep going and keep up with your partner’s progress. This is especially helpful for people who find that they cum excessively early into a session; these strengthening exercises could allow you to last for minutes on end!
Getting it On
Controlling yourself can often feel hard when you feel yourself approaching that “point of no return”, but it is entirely possible if you employ a number of our simple tips and tricks. The most important thing to remember in order to naturally help yourself to last longer is to not get too overexcited; this is especially true when it comes to the speed of a session.
Be careful and thrust a little less slowly than you might naturally be inclined to do. Always remember to incorporate muscle strengthening exercises into your routine, too, if possible.
Once you master this, you will then be well on the way to having the longest sex sessions imaginable.
