Someone who has never had the chance to experience the immense pleasure of a g-spot orgasm is undeniably missing out. Being able to find your g-spot is a great way of improving the overall experience during your sex sessions, giving you some of the most powerful orgasms that you will ever have the chance to experience. However, many people do not know how to find their g-spot, and this can leave them lacking in regards to their overall sexual experiences.
So, what about you? Do you know how to find your g-spot?
What is the G-Spot?
The g-spot is a highly sensitive area of a woman’s vagina that is well known for giving people an immense amount of pleasure when adequately stimulated. Indeed, g spot orgasms are often some of the most intense around, although for many women, actually finding the g spot in order to stimulate it enough to achieve an orgasm can be hard.
The g-spot itself is a topic and anatomical structure that has been met with a great deal of debate in recent times. Indeed, even the very existence of a g-spot in a woman’s anatomy has not been scientifically agreed; while there seems to be a great deal of knowledge out their nowadays that indicates that the g-spot is a real region in the woman’s vagina that offers a huge bundle of nerve endings, it has thus far been impossible to detect.
Does the Female G-Spot Exist?
A team of researchers at King’s College London concluded in 2009 that the truth behind the female g-spot is still hard to determine. Oddly, during this research, it was commonly seen that identical twins would have differing experiences of g-spot stimulation over the course of the 15 year study; this further raises questions on the debate of whether the g-spot is real, or whether some women simply aren’t lucky enough to find it.
Studies into the existence of the g-spot have been carried out for nearly a century now, after the first research into the region was conducted in the 1940s. In all of that time though, scientists have been unable to determine what, exactly, the g-spot actually is; some scientists believe that the g-spot is an extension of the woman’s clitoris, while others seem to believe that the woman’s g-spot could be in relation to her skene’s glands (which release lubrication when aroused).
How to Find Your G-Spot
One of the many reasons that women cannot achieve a g-spot orgasm may simply be because they have never had the opportunity to find their own g-spot. As such, knowing how to find yours could be a great first step in the process to a far more pleasurable sex life!
To find your g-spot, the first thing that you should do is know where the g-spot is supposed to be. If you have one, it should be found in between your pubic bone and your cervix; this is normally about two inches in. The g-spot will also be on the front wall of your vagina, which can further confuse people trying to locate it.
The easiest way to locate the g-spot is to first get aroused. However you might do this is up to you, but arousal will make the g-spot swell and become more sensitive, further helping you to find it. Don’t bother trying to find the g-spot if you don’t feel in the mood. It simply won’t work, and you definitely won’t end up having that incredibly vaginal and clitoral orgasm that you dream of!
No matter the tool that you are using while searching for your g-spot—be it a finger, a sex toy, or even your partner—the important thing is to ensure that the angle is right. In order to hit the g-spot, you need to be brushing the walls of your vagina closest to your stomach; angle yourself or your partner in such a way as to achieve this.
Taking things slowly, carefully explore this wall of your vagina; with a little time and patience, you are likely to find your g-spot. It won’t necessarily feel any different to the rest of your vagina, but it will be more sensitive.
All that is left now is to stimulate it, and push yourself over the edge into a world of pleasure! Most women report that the best way to do this is to use a circular or stroking motion against the g-spot. However, feel free to experiment with different positions, toys, and movements in order to find the one that is right for you and helps you to achieve that mind blowing, potentially (sex) life changing orgasm!
Achieving G-Spot Orgasms
A large number of women will never be able to achieve a g-spot orgasm; whether this is because of a poor technique for finding their g-spot or the fact that they do not have a g-spot themselves is unknown.
It is often widely stressed by medical and scientific bodies that g-spot orgasms are, thusly, not the norm; people who actively try to find their g-spot do seem to have a far higher success rate for g-spot orgasms, though, and it is for this reason that you may want to try to locate your own g-spot if you have yet to experience a g-spot orgasm. If you are struggling to achieve a g-spot orgasm, you may want to consider investing in specific g-spot vibrators which may help you to find and stimulate this incredibly sensitive region.
Found It?
If you don’t manage to find your g-spot on the first time, that’s OK—finding the g-spot takes time and patience. But once you do find it, be ready for a wave of pleasure and arousal to wash over you; it might be overwhelming, so just be prepared!
No matter what the circumstances of your exploration might be, make sure you enjoy it either way!