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How To Clean Your Sex Toys

After any invigorating sex session, it is vital that you give your sex toys the care and attention that they deserve. Indeed, to expect to be able to use your sex toys on a regular basis without cleaning them off at some point is only going to lead to trouble, which is why it is vital to know how to clean your sex toys thoroughly in advance!

So many people fall into the trap of not cleaning their sex toys and falling ill as a result of this; don’t be one of those people! Make the most of your sex toys and prolong their life and your health by cleaning them well on a regular basis, ideally after every session that you use them for!

Why is Cleaning My Sex Toys Important?

When it comes to prolonging your enjoyment and satisfaction from your sex toys, it is essential that you clean them on a regular basis. If you do not clean your sex toys as regularly as you ought to, it is almost certain that you will wind up having problems at some point in time! By contrast, only a quick clean will help you to keep your sex toys sanitary and safe to use—allowing you to have more pleasure from every toy!

Just think about this. Most sex toys will either be inserted into your body or will otherwise be used around your exposed skin. This can quite easily increase the chances of you developing an illness from your sex toys—particularly in cases where you haven’t cleaned your sex toys properly on a regular basis.

Any time that you use a sex toy, even the cleanest ones, you are technically putting your body at risk. There are huge numbers of bacteria all around us on a daily basis, in the very air that we breathe—and the air that touches your sex toy. This means that you are exposing your inner skin to potential bacteria with every session, but this normally isn’t too much to worry about; unless you are already immunocompromised (in which case, are you really feeling up to a kinky sex toy session) your body will normally be able to fight off the bacteria from the air. After all, it is used to these bacteria and knows how to tackle them; your body is exposed to airborne bacteria every time that you take a breath, so the chances of getting ill just from using a clean sex toy are marginal at most.

What can be a problem, though, is when you don’t wash off your sex toy. But not washing off your sex toy after a session, you are leaving all of your own bodily fluids all over the surface of the toy—and this is the perfect breeding ground for bacteria! Warm, wet, and nutritious, bacteria will rapidly grow and proliferate on your uncleaned sex toy—potentially without you even knowing.

You might not be able to see the bacteria, but they are there, having a party while waiting for you to use your uncleaned sex toy again. And when you do, this is when you might find yourself having difficulties. Your body is used to a small number of bacteria from the air at once, but a whole colony of bacteria that has sprung up on your sex toy in a matter of days? Not so much.

But what does this all mean? At its very simplest, this means that people who don’t clean off their sex toys between uses might as well get the tissues ready, because they are going to get ill sooner or later. This is especially the case for people who share their sex toys, as this can rapidly spread STDs.

The same can be said for people who only give their sex toys a quick wipe off, too—so always make sure that you follow our sex toy cleaning tips and look after your sex toys to the best of your abilities all the time. Because, if you don’t, you’re asking for trouble.

How to Clean Sex Toys

When it comes to cleaning your sex toys, there are a number of different methods that you can use. The best method will vary from toy to toy, due to the different nooks and outcroppings that might make some cleaning methods difficult, and others more suitable, for your unique type of toy. After all, modern sex toys come in a huge number of different shapes, sizes, and forms nowadays; choosing the right cleaning method for your sex toy is essential if you are to get it fully clean and safe for use.

The most popular way of cleaning a sex toy is to use warm water, mixed with detergent or a mild soap. By gently washing your sex toy in this mixture, and then leaving it to dry or towel drying it, you will be able to get rid of the vast majority of bacteria and bodily fluids from the surface of the toy—making it clean and hygienic to use the next time you might want a session with it!

If you don’t want to use a soapy water mixture, another option for cleaning your sex toys is to use a disinfectant wipe. There are many disinfectant wipes on the market nowadays that are suitable for cleaning food surfaces, and these should also be suitable for cleaning most sex toys as well.

One other type of sex toy cleaning product exists on the market nowadays, and this is that of UV light. Through the use of UV light, you will be able to hygienically kill almost all bacteria that is found on your sex toy—although this method won’t get rid of any leftover bodily fluids, so remember to clean up properly when using this method unless you want a sticky sex toy next time around!

A Word of Caution

There is no one hard and fast rule for cleaning your sex toys, as cleaning methods should always be adapted based on the type of sex toy that you own. For example, for an electrical or battery powered sex toy, you should never try cleaning it in warm water; this could seep into the casing of the toy, if the seals are not watertight, and could then cause trouble with the electrical systems inside the toy. It is always important to remember that even the best battery powered sex toys for internal use are unlikely to be 100% waterproof, especially after multiple uses, and so these will need gentler cleaning with a disinfectant wipe or the like.

November 4, 2019
How Often Is Okay To Masturbate?

Masturabation is a common part of our modern sex lives, but many people often fear that they might be spending too much time masturbating. Indeed, masturbation sessions—especially for people who haven’t got a partner to help them achieve their needs—can quickly go on for quite some time; in these cases, it is important to consider if you are spending too much time masturbating, and whether you should try to cut back on your masturbation sessions a little bit.

Is Masturbation Bad for You?

There is a common misconception in our modern society that masturbation can be bad for you. This idea has come about quite strongly in recent times and leaves many people wondering if masturbation, as pleasurable as it might be, is a good thing to be doing or not.

Of course, it will often be the case that we would prefer to have a partner helping us out that having to satisfy our own needs with masturbation toys. However, not everyone can have a partner all at once, and so masturbation may sometimes be the only way of getting that pleasure and relief that you so desperately need—especially if you’d rather avoid having to go to someone that you don’t know for sexual relations (which, of course, can have a whole number of potential ramifications in and of itself anyway, and should always be avoided from a health and safety perspective anyway).

But is masturbation actually bad for you, or is it just a convenient way of releasing all of that pent up energy and frustration?

How Many People Masturbate?

The majority of people, at some point in their lives, will have tried out masturbation. Even though it is a highly taboo topic in our modern society, there is no getting away from the fact that pretty much every person that you meet in your life will have tried it—which is reassuring, to say the least!

Indeed, in the space of a month, as many as 70% of men will have had at least one masturabation session, a recent US study concluded. Of these men, a whopping 30% said that they masturbated on a weekly basis at least, if not every other day! An additional 15% even said that they typically masturbated about once a day, if not more! These figures clearly go to show just how common masturbation is in our society.

This figure falls slightly for women. Regardless of this fact, though, it is still interesting to note that somewhere around 40% of women (aged between 18 and 60 years of age) had masturbated in the past month.

In addition to this, the level of masturbation among young people is through the roof! As many as three quarters of all young males, aged between 14 and 17, have masturbated at least once in their lives; about 50% of females in the same age bracket made the same admission, as well.

But what about the consequences of masturbation? If such a large number of people in our society spend time masturbating, surely it can’t be that bad for our health?

Masturbation and Health: The Misconceptions

For whatever reason, people living in our modern society seem to have adopted the stance that masturbation is damaging and harmful for your health. However, the truth is actually quite the opposite; masturbation can offer a large number of physical and mental health benefits!

For one, it should come as no surprise that masturbation is a highly effective way of relieving stress in individuals who are feeling pent up and upset; it can temporarily help a person ignore their nagging worries, which will help to give them such much needed downtime. In addition, it is also a great way of strengthening the pelvic floor muscles and relieving an individual of any pent up sexual tension that they might have built up.

Indeed, the benefits of masturbation are numerous, and it is sometimes even said that there could be a link between masturbation and an improved conception of self esteem among young people! Additionally, masturbation gives people who are exploring their sexuality the chance to discover what they do and don’t like, without the risks associated with having a partner do so.

When Masturbation Becomes a Problem

Masturbation is a great tool for many people to use, however, it can also be potentially problematic as well. As with many other addictions, masturbation can also take on a prominent role in a person’s life—and this is when masturbation is no longer healthy, but is an obsession.

There is no specific number of sessions that a person can partake in before masturbation becomes a problem; this will largely be dependant on the individual person’s desires. However, if masturbation is being done every day without fail and is beginning to take over a person’s life, the time has probably come to consider whether doing so is a healthy stress reliever anymore, or if masturbation has developed into an inescapable addiction.

So, How Often Should You Masturbate?

As previously mentioned, there is no hard figure as to how often you should masturbate; so long as it isn’t interfering with your daily life, you are free to masturbate as much—or as little—as you want! However, when it is done too regularly to the point that it is a compulsion, it can become a real problem.

This is a theory that is backed up by researchers at New Health Advisor, who concluded the same fact in their National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior. The most important this is, therefore, to be happy, healthy, and at peace with your sexuality and masturbation practices.

Because, after all, masturbation is little more than a tool for helping a person to find satisfaction and relief for their sexual tensions when they do not have a partner around to help them—or even as a means of spicing up relations with a partner! And who is more highly qualified than you (and your partner) to decide how often you should be masturbating?

November 4, 2019
How Long Do Women Want Men To Last In Bed?

As with so many aspects of a man’s sexual life, one of the many things that men can feel a little unsure about is their ability to last for their partner during sex. Many men suffer from early ejaculation and this can often ruin a session for a man and his partner, cutting short some potentially sexy times!

As such, many men feel concerned about their ability to last in bed—especially when they are young and inexperienced, or otherwise as they age and lose stamina. This can be a situation that huge numbers of men find themselves in each year and can cause a great deal of distress. For these individuals, knowing exactly how long women want men to last in bed could be of a great relief.

Why Not Just Ask?

Oftentimes, our partners will fail to give us truthful answers when prompted to answer questions about how long a penis size they ideally want, or how long they want their partner to last in bed. Indeed, if you were to ask your partner after a session whether you lasted long enough for her liking or not, she would probably always say yes—regardless of her true opinions.

Women understand the importance to men of being able to last long and be impressive in bed. This can mean that many women will hide their true feelings so as not to embarrass or upset their partner—which is of little use for men genuinely trying to find out if their efforts were good enough.

In fact, this can mean that asking your partner this question might only result in making matters worse for you; if she says that you did last long enough, you will probably always find yourself questioning if she was trying to be nice and spare your emotions, or if she actually was impressed by your performance and how long you were able to hold out for her.

So, what other options are there for finding out how long women want their male partners to last in bed?

Studies

The best way of finding out how long women want men to last in bed is to consult some of the many recent studies that have been carried out into this topic. Indeed, this is a question that has plagued men for many years, and so modern researchers have wasted no time in looking to find an answer to this question that will appease both men and women.

A recent piece of research—well, it was based on information gathered from a Twitter poll, but we’ll go with it—found that most women seem to expect for their male partners to be able to last somewhere in the region of 5 to 10 minutes in length. Considering that the average sex session, not including any foreplay, lasts for somewhere in the region of about 5 to 6 minutes, this should mean that most women will be happy with what you can offer her!

However, this is not the case for everyone. In the same Twitter poll, as many as 20% of women reported that they wanted their sex session to last over 11 minutes—quite the feat for most blokes to pull off! However, this is often the case for women who take a little more time with their sex sessions and who prefer not to go into the real hardcore stuff straight away, so some credit can be given on that score.

But what does this mean for the ideal sex session length? Do you last long enough in bed, or do you need to focus on improving your control a little more in order to give your partner the high that she deserves as well?

So, What is The Ideal Length of a Session?

Honestly, there is no exact figure for how long you should last. The ideal length sex session is one that adequately satisfies both you and your partner; if you can get her to the stage of orgasming too, then you’ve probably hit that sweet spot and can let yourself go as well. If she’s still groaning and squirming beneath you and seems to be waiting for you to kick it up a notch, though, then you might want to do your best to hold on a little longer and put your all into giving her that epic peak as well.

Because, at the end of the day, the ideal length sex session will vary between partners and will be largely dependant on a number of different factors. Are you having penatrative sex, or oral sex? Are you both new to the sex world, and looking for quick and messy first relations? Or perhaps are you wisened sex veterans looking for a long and drawn out session that is filled with pleasure?

There are so many factors that come into play in regards to determining the ideal length of a session that it can be hard to give an exact figure. If you think that both you and your partner seem to be reasonably satisfied, then that is probably fine. After all, no one is likely to be checking the time half way through a session—so stop working yourself up too much about how long you should be able to last and focus on pleasuring your partner. Because that is the only conclusive way to work out what length of sex session works best for you.

Remember, the best sex isn’t always the longest sex; most commonly, the best sex sessions will be those which are hard, fast, and passionate beyond measure. As many as 82% of women reported that excessively long sex sessions can get boring and unsatisfying. So, don’t focus too much on how long you last; jut put your all into it, and you’re sure to leave both you and your partner a satisfied, quivering mess!

November 4, 2019
How Can I Tighten My Vagina?

There are a lot of pressures placed on modern people to be the epitome of their sexuality. For men, it is widely expected for them to have a large and girthy penis that will show off their masculinity; for women, a neat and tight vagina is highly praised and “sought after” among partners.

Indeed, having a tight vagina will offer a huge number of benefits for the sex life of both an individual, and her partner. However, for women who have a vagina that is a little “flabby” and loose, finding out how to tighten the vagina could be a great way of working to ensure that your sex life is 100% and as thrilling and arousing as it can possibly be!

So, is it possible to tighten your vagina? How can you go about tightening your vagina safely and without too much invasion so as to ensure that sex is wonderful once again?

Why You Might Want to Tighten Your Vagina

There are a number of reasons as to why you might want to tighten your vagina, and understanding these reasons will help you to make a decision as to whether or not tightening your vagina is right for you.

If you think that your vagina might be loose, you probably want to look at getting it tightened up again so as to enhance your sex life. A loose vagina simply won’t be able to offer the same experiences and satisfaction levels as a tight and youthful one, which is why more and more women are exploring ways in which they can tighten their vaginas nowadays. After all, what’s the point of having inferior and substandard sex, when you could be riding on cloud nine with a tight and sensitive new vagina?

Why The Vagina Can Become Loose

There are a number of different reasons as to why the vagina itself can lose its tightness, although many women make the mistake of believing that this tightness cannot be restored. Indeed, this is not the case; the vagina itself is made from highly elasticated materials and is designed by nature to stretch and constrict.

It is important to note that this natural elasticity means that your vagina should always be slightly loose, especially when aroused; the muscles in a woman’s vagina will relax when she is feeling aroused, especially by a male partner, in order to allow her to accomadate the potentially generous girth that her partner can offer her. However, once the session is over, the vagina will usually revert to its normal strength relatively quickly.

However, this is not always the case. Trauma, or the act of having a baby, can wreak havoc on the muscles in the vaginal walls—which, in turn, can begin to make the vagina more loose. But this isn’t the end; indeed, with a little TLC, you can quickly help your vagina pick itself up again and redevelop that wonderful tightness that you used to rely on.

But how can you do this? How can you go about getting back that tight vagina that you so desperately crave?

Getting Your Vagina Back Again!

If your vagina used to be tight and is now feeling a little loose, you might want to look at ways in which you can get it tightened again. While this sounds awful in itself, tightening your vagina doesn’t need to involve any complex and highly risky surgeries; instead, you can tighten your own vagina by making a few simple changes to your life.

Vaginal Cone

So, pretty much every lady alive today will know what a tampon is, right? Well, now let us introduce the vaginal cone—a product that looks and is used very similarly to a tampon, but that will work out your core vagina muscles for you, helping to give you back that wonderful tightness that you remember!

Vaginal cones are incredibly simple to use. Simply insert the cone—taking care while doing so, of course!—and allow the weights of the cone to rest just at the entrance to your vagina. By doing this and holding the weights in for a few minutes at a time with the use of your vaginal wall muscles, you will soon have a tight vagina again!

Herbs and Treatments

There are a number of different herbs and plants that you can use that will reportedly help with tightening the vaginal walls. One of these plants is aloe vera, which is renowned worldwide for its incredibly healing properties. By applying aloe vera gel to the inside of the vagina once or twice a day, you may be able to see an improvement in the overall health and tightness of the vagina muscles!

Alternatively, the Indiana Gooseberry is also highly regarded for tightening the vaginal wall muscles. Simply boil about 10 of these little fruits in a saucepan of pure water, and then make an opaque blend of the resulting extract by adding a little more pure water. This mixture can then be applied just before having a bath or a shower, which could also help to improve vaginal tightness.

These are just two of the many herbs that could potentially help you to tighten your vagina! What have you got to lose?

Kegel Exercises

Kegel exercises are arguably the most popular form of vagina tightening method that modern women use. Kegel exercises work by contracting and then relaxing the muscles in the groin region. Doing this repeatedly is often said to be a highly effective method of working to strengthen—and, thusly, tighten—the walls of the vagina. For such a simple and painless exercise, what have you got to lose?

Looking Forward

Tightening your vagina really doesn’t need to be difficult, and by following the above simple tricks, you will quickly find yourself on the road to a highly satisfying sex life once again! Don’t let a loose vagina ruin your pleasure any longer!

November 4, 2019
Does Penis Size Matter?

In our modern society, there is a lot of emphasis placed on the importance of a guy having a big and girthy penis. Indeed, any time you go online you will likely be accosted by adverts offering “one simple trick to increase penis size” and the like.

No matter where you look, the belief that having a huge penis is essential is positively thrust at you. There is no escaping it, which can be irritating for a guy who already has a large penis, and incredibly distressing for someone who is equipped with a slightly more modest girth and length.

But does penis size actually matter? Are all of these online wonder cures and adverts hinting at something that you should be doing to increase your penis size, or should you quite worrying and focus on other factors such as technique instead?

Does Penis Size Actually Matter?

Answering this question is somewhat subjective and, in some cases, will largely depend on the partner’s own opinions. Indeed, some women will absolutely adore a huge and incredibly girthy penis—and others will feel faint at the sight and thought of such a thing penetrating them! As such, for the most accurate answer, a bloke’s best option is to ask his partner of the time whether a big penis is important for her or not.

Of course, if you ask your partner this, she might just say no to respect your own feelings if you think that you have a slightly on the smaller side penis. We have to give our partners so much credit for this, however, it is also the case that these unclear answers will likely only leave you feeling a little more doubtful than you were before. If your partner answers anything other than yes to the question of, “does penis size matter”, then you will probably end up just doubting her honesty and questioning your own girth and length even further.

Clearly, another option is needed, then, to determine whether penis size is important for you and your partner’s satisfaction. And online reviews that have been carried out on women in recent times—anonymous reviews, where women can answer honestly and without fear of hurting somebody’s feelings—have helped us to determine the answer to this seemingly eternal dilemma.

So, does penis size matter? Read on to find out!

What the Polls Say

One of the best ways to get an idea of women’s thoughts regarding a penis’ size and length is to ask her—but, if she is your partner, it is likely that she might always say no as a means of respecting your feelings. After all, in a relationship, no one wants to be hurting their partner’s thoughts and emotions, do they?

Another option of finding out the general opinion of women, then, is to head to the polls. Polls are a great way of gathering data and information without the fear of people answering untruthfully; polls are almost always anonymous, too, and this helps to reassure people to give their true thoughts and opinions on a topic. In this case, of course, the topic is on penis size and how important women think it is for their partner to have a generously proportioned penis.

One recent study was carried out which studied the opinions of both men and women in order to determine society’s conceptions about the ideal penis size. This study, which was undertaken by Dr. Ed, and uncovered some interesting results about the ideal penis size—from the perspective of men and women.

For women in the United States, the ideal penis size was believed to be 6.7 inches—rather long indeed! However, this figure was quite significantly higher than the expected penis size that women imagined before getting into bed with their partners; this figure was quite notably lower at 5.6 inches! Indeed, women from the US had the biggest misconceptions of penis size and ideal penis size of all of the other countries studied; clearly, women in the States are hoping for an almost impossibly girthy length from every one of their suitors!

But what about men’s opinions? The same study also asked the same questions of men, to see how the opinions and expectations would differ between the two sexes—and the results were expected, but shocking nonetheless.

On average, the expected penis length of all of the women in the study, from each of the different countries, came in at around 5.4 inches in length. On a similar score, again on average, the ideal penis length for a man to be equipped with came in at 6.2 inches. But what were guys’ thoughts on this topic?

As one might expect, men were far less generous in terms of the ideal size of penis than their female counterparts, expecting other rival men to have a far longer and girthier penis. While women expected a penis that measured in at around 5.4 inches, and hoped for one that tipped the edge of the tape at 6.2 inches, men wanted far more; the male study found that the expected penis size had shot up to nearly 5.6 inches, and men around the world seemed to believe that the ideal penis size was even more exaggerated at 6.5 inches!

What Does this Mean for Men?

If you have a big penis, you are one of the lucky ones who won’t have to worry about meeting your partner’s expectations in bed. For men with smaller penises, though, it can be incredibly reassuring to know that your expectations of the ideal penis length are not at all what your partner is likely to be expecting of you, giving you more leeway.

Of course, penis length is a tricky topic to get a final conclusion on. Invariably, a guy with a penis that is too big will simply be intimidating for a female partner, and may leave her feeling unsatisfyingly sore; as such, it is safe to say that, in the world of sex, penis length really isn’t everything over how well you use what you are equipped with!

November 4, 2019
Do Penis Pumps Work & Are They Safe?

Many men will have, at some point in their lives, considered the possibility of using a penis pump. Penis pumps are rapidly gaining in popularity nowadays and are much loved thanks to their nature as a non invasive cure for erectile dysfunction! But do they actually work, and are they safe to use?

What is Erectile Dysfunction?

Erectile dysfunction is a condition in which the penis fails to properly develop an erection. For some men, an erection might be somewhat limp and flaccid; for others, even a small erection might not even be possible at all.

There are many different reasons as to why a man might develop this condition, include damage to the penis, age, and stress—just to name a few of the most common causes. Regardless of the cause, though, the condition is never a fun one to have to live with.

It is now said that a shocking number of men suffer from erectile dysfunction, increasing the need for an easy and effective treatment for the condition. As many as 12% of men under 60 may develop the condition, and this increases to 22% of over 60 year olds and 30% of over 70 year olds! However, these results are not as clear cut as they might seem; a recent study concluded that one in four men seeking treatment for erectile dysfunction are under 40!

This, of course, is an incredibly distressing situation for many men to find themselves in. People who suffer from erectile dysfunction may feel embarrassed at the inability to get an erection, or otherwise maintain it during sexual relations; this can also lead on to men having a reduced interest in having relations with their partners, which can further add insult to injury.

Men who suffer from erectile dysfunction who can get a full erection may otherwise suffer from a number of other humiliating and upsetting conditions, such as premature or otherwise delayed ejaculation. Some men also find that they cannot ejaculate at all, even when the penis has been thoroughly aroused and stimulated, which can make the entire situation even more unbearable and uncomfortable.

As such, it comes as no surprise that a man who suffers from erectile dysfunction might find himself wanting to find a solution that will help to cure him of his problem and difficulties. However, treatment for erectile dysfunction is variable in nature and efficacy, and this can leave some men with few options to turn to.

Erectile Dysfunction Treatments

There are a number of different treatments for erectile dysfunction available on the market nowadays, although these can vary in their effectiveness. Some medications are available which work to stimulate an increased blood flow through the penis, such as Viagra and Levitra, while other natural remedies can also help in some scenarios.

For ED brought on by stress and the like, the resolution may also develop naturally when the individual’s stress levels fall—but, for a lot of men, this may not be as easily done as it is said.

For whatever reason, if ED treatments don’t seem to be working for you, then an alternative treatment could be needed. Investing in a high quality penis pump could potentially be the answer for you—but do they actually work? And are they safe to use, or will they only aggravate the problem further?

Do Penis Pumps Actually Work?

Penis pumps are rapidly growing in popularity as a treatment for erectile dysfunction, especially when other medications and remedies don’t seem to work. They are especially popular for the fact that they are not an invasive method, which many men can appreciate; penis surgery often doesn’t sound overly safe or pleasant!

Penis pumps are a great choice for many different reasons. They are easy and simple to use and are also comfortable—especially when compared to injections and the like. In addition, they seem to work well for the vast majority of men who struggle to get and maintain an erection; while they need to be used on a regular basis, they are far more comfortable than having to endure painful injections or surgery!

But that’s not all! Penis pumps are also a highly affordable treatment option for men suffering from erectile dysfunction, and in some cases, they may restore erectile function to its old state (this is commonly seen for people who have undergone prostate surgery, for example).

The best part about penis pumps arguably has to be that they can be used alongside other treatment plans, though. If you find that medication for erectile dysfunction works decently, then using a penis pump alongside this could help you to get back all of your old penis functions! For the cost of buying a penis pump, what’s not to love about that?

Are Penis Pumps Safe?

Penis pumps are almost always incredibly safe to use, however, they are not a perfect solution. This is particularly the case for people who are on blood thinning medications, or who have any other form of blood condition, as these could cause an increased risk of bleeding when using a penis pump.

Additionally, some men report that the erection that is helped along by a penis pump might not feel entirely natural. Sometimes, the skin around the penis can feel numb in certain areas (primarily when a constriction band is applied) and slight, under the skin bleeding may result in pinprick red spots occurring along the length of the penis. Sometimes, it can also be the case that an erection might feel “wobbly” at the base, giving a little less support during sex than might be expected from a normal erection.

Is a Penis Pump Right for Me?

If you suffer from erectile dysfunction then a penis pump could be a great solution for your needs. While they are not the perfect solution, they are highly cost effective and can be used alongside other, more mainstream treatments for erectile dysfunction—which is largely why they are rapidly growing in popularity nowadays for men looking for a firmer erection.

November 4, 2019
Best Toys for a Bucks Party or Stag Party

Sometimes stag, buck and bachelor parties can be particularly wild—and wild nights call for an even more wild selection of toys. For those special parties, having the right toys at the right time can create some very great and pleasurable moments. Fortunately, gentlemen have quite an exciting and diverse array of different toys and toy types to choose from. Due to this, however, sometimes it can be hard or even intimidating to choose the ideal toy!

What Makes the Best Toys

The best toys for your stag party will depend largely upon what tastes and preferences you and your partner may have. However, it is also important to note that the toys at a party must be well-made, easy to safely clean, comfortable and versatile in their effectiveness and usage. Revelry can get quite wild and you want a toy that can do its job, do it well, and create no hassle for you or your partner.

Product Reviews

Yosposs Vibrating Anal Beads

Anal beads can be fun and tantalising but throwing vibration into the mix? You cannot go wrong with a winning combination as that. These beads are waterproof and sturdy so are not at all out of place in the shower or tub.

The vibrator is intricately designed with a lot of options on offer. There are 3 levels of intensity and one can choose from 13 different unique patterns that run down the beads.

Each bead itself stars from a larger size at the t-shaped base and gradually tapers off at the top for easy and gradually increasing pleasure during insertion. The vibrator itself is made in a bullet shape that can be removed as desired for external use in conjunction with the beads for even more options.

Thanks to the t-shaped base, the region between the scrotum and your anus can simultaneously receive direct stimulation as the beads are in action.

The silicone is high quality and with so many elements at work, these beads are versatile indeed. 123 reviews have produced a very positive average of 4 and a half stars in total.

Paloqueth Anal Vibrator

For a great massage and more, this anal vibrator packs quite a punch.

Not only is it ergonomic and USB-chargeable but it is even ideal for stimulating the prostate. The silicone construction is elegant and flexible as much as it is smooth, allowing for a very comfortable performance. It is not overly bulky or huge, at just over 1 inch wide at the flared top and over 4.9 inches in height.

With a long lasting battery, the multiple speeds available offer a delightful experience without worries of the battery running out mid-session. Furthermore, the speeds are customisable, nailing that sought after versatility.

10 vibration modes are available with the vibrating motor, and the toy comes with a remote control for hands free convenience.

The vibrator is friendly to beginner-level and first time users, being easy to pick up and use right out of the box. It has well earned its 4 and a half stars according to 359 customer reviews.

Akstore 3 Piece Luxury Butt Plugs

Coming in with style are a trio of very flashy looking, high quality-made butt plugs by Akstore. They are smooth and stainless steel in make and are a very classic form of butt plug that do what they do well and with style at that.

They come in a multitude of colours and each ends in a jewel-looking end for a very sexy way to keep your hindquarters passively stimulated during sex or solo masturbation with the right amount of your favourite lubricant. The surface is entirely safe and non-odorous. Additionally, they are simple matters to clean and use.

Of the three, the largest is approximately 1.6 inches in width, the medium 1.3, and the smallest at 1.1 provide a nice set of options for different levels of stimulation. There really is something for everyone with these three sizes; indeed the largest has a length of 3.6 inches for a particularly deep-seated pleasure.

475 customer reviews have garnered these elegant anal plugs a very promising 4 and a half stars.

Hmxpls 3 Piece Butt Plugs

Fans of silicone butt plugs can find plenty to live with this 3 piece set. The design feels lovely in your hand and even lovelier when inserted, the comfortableness offering a high degree of welcoming pleasure to first time users.

Even the largest of the three is convenient in size for use whilst traveling with a length of 3.7 inches. Meanwhile, the second and third are gradually smaller in size for a greater level of variety in the set.

The silicone material is medical grade and hypoallergenic. Of great importance is its ease of cleaning before and after use for you or your partner. This allows for cleaning and preparation to be no real chore and maximising the time you or your partner have to enjoy themselves.

A variety of colours are available and each is adorned on the outward-facing side with a decorative jewel pattern. With its velvety smooth surface and the flexibility that silicone provides, these butt plugs are ideal for nimble situations especially during long journeys.

262 reviews have given these butt plugs an average rating of 4 stars out of 5.

Choosing the Right Ones for You

When it comes to choosing the best sex toys for a buck party, you should always keep in mind how energetic and fast-paced these events can be. You will want a toy that is as hassle-free as possible, safe, durable, easy to clean and, of course, fun and effective! You should always think about which sources of stimulation you prefer the most. Is it dildo? Massager, beads, stroker? From there, you can narrow it down to those which toys have the most features and characteristics that appeal to you and in no time you will be set!

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Best Condoms That Make You Last Longer

Long lasting condoms are a great benefit for partners that aim to prolong and maximize their pleasure during sex, right through to climax. Prolonged pleasure translates to high rates of satisfaction and overall sexual wellness for both partners, which can be one of the many ingredients for a happy, healthy overall adult lifestyle.

Prolonging condoms are designed with not just high durability in mind but also the aim to provide a sensation which delays or even enhances a man’s orgasm.

What Makes a Great Condom

To achieve a longer lasting experience, you will want a condom specifically designed to meet this goal. You will also want one that will allow you to do so in both comfort and safety.

The ideal condom will offer such features as ribbing, lubrication within the lining, comfortable latex (or a similarly comfortable non-latex material) to both stimulate your partner and keep you going pleasurably for an ultimately more intense orgasm.

Product Reviews

Lifestyles SKYN Selection Condoms

These condoms are made from a proprietary, non-latex material which offers the same degree of strength and protection but without being overtly noticeable during intercourse. The design also employs a slightly studded pattern within the lining that resembles waves to maximize stimulation for both partners.

The developer states that electronic tests are used for quality assurance, which indicates a high amount of research and development went into its design. The usage of a distinctive non-latex material appears to be a big win with customers in their reviews.

Lubricant is added to the interior of the condom with a long duration quality. This focus on the lubricant is crucial in this condom’s effectiveness for a long-lasting experience with your partner. In combination with the wave design and its lack of real noticeability when being worn prove to be a winning combination.

The 24-count pack achieves a resounding 4 and a half stars from 815 unique ratings. Definitely worthy of a try!

Durex Performax Condom

Performax condoms come out the gate swinging in the lubricant department. Not only does this Durex condom contain a special lubricant on the inside, but it also boasts a second application of benzocaine-based lubricant on the exterior as well! Meanwhile, the interior lube is meant to reduce sensitivity to prevent early orgasm. It begins doing its job as soon as the interior temperature kicks up at just the crucial moment during sex to draw out your and your partner’s pleasure.

These condoms are textured in a dotted ribbed pattern and are a comfortable fit with ease of use in mind. You won’t need to worry about hassle during those energetic and eager early moments! Indeed, with the ideal amount of comfort, it should feel as if you were wearing nothing at all!

Between the dual lubricant applications, the comfort and ease of use, and stimulation for both partners, the Performax condoms have earned themselves a solid 4 stars from 1,389 ratings for the standard 24 pack.

LifeStyles SKYN Elite Condoms -36 Pack

Aiming for a particularly sensitive experience, Skyn Elite condoms come equipped with a long duration lubricant meant to augment the smoothness of the interior skin of the condom.

These condoms are on the thinner side for greater softness. They also come with the nice touch of a natural colour; your member will not need to be a hot neon color during sex to have the full advantages of a lubricated condom! Indeed, though it might seem to be a minor detail, a more natural coloured condom design can be a great initial visual aid when it comes to having a feeling like you are wearing nothing at all during sex. The near invisibility of the condom as a result plays to the strengths of its shape and lubricant to deliver a truly intense experience.

Design-wise, the condom’s walls are straight and the end is a standard reservoir shape. 121 unique ratings have landed this condom a solid 4 and a half stars!

Lifestyles Pleasure Collection

The strength of this condom pack lies in its variety and a glide-enhancing lubricant carefully pre-applied to each variety in the pack. They come in a variety of colors but, more importantly, the collection also offers you the options of the non-latex Skyn, ultra thin, ultra sensitive, and ultra ribbed variants. You will have the perfect condom for every situation and mood; each is guaranteed to maximise the duration and pleasure of your performance!

Alongside variations in color are also offerings of various flavors, ranging from Vanilla to Banana and Strawberry, for your partner’s further enjoyment as well as yours!

All condoms in this pack have a durable reservoir tip and the latex scent is barely noticeable in the non-Skyn variants. For the 30 pack, customers have given them an outstanding 4 and a half stars from 234 different ratings (with the emphasised strength being the variety of choices from a single pack).

Trojan Condom ENZ Lubricated

This offering is a very solid one; the Trojan name is well known amongst adults for a reason. These ENZ condoms come in a pack of 36 and are a tried and tested condom design.

Latex lining is high quality and durable with a reservoir tip for maximum safety. Electronic testing further ensures the durability from factory to straight out of the box.

An ultra smooth lubricant is employed within the lining to ensure the right amounts of comfort and sensitivity to keep you going for longer. Silkyness like this from lubricant can be essential for both partners all throughout sex as it prevents a chaffing and earlier-than-desired orgasm.

All and all, the ENZ condoms eschew more complex design in favour of a simple but rock-solid effectiveness with maximised safety and comfort. With that combination, you can never go wrong.

Customers have taken favourably to it with 4 and a half stars from a resounding 1,324 ratings! Classic and trusted indeed.

Knowing Which Condom Suits You

Longer-lasting pleasure needs a long-lasting condom, with all the benefits that entails. When choosing the right ones for you and your partner, pay attention to how the designers employ lubricant into the lining.

What kind of lubricant is it? How does it relate to the shape or texture and how they work together to alter the feel of the condom? Also of importance is latex versus non latex material (especially for allergies), flavour, appearance and smell.

All of these can alter the duration of your performance in varying ways. With these factors in mind, you are on the right track to longer lasting (and far more satisfying) nights!

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