The Kinky Sex
One of the most interesting things about sex is that it can come in so many forms and has a lot of variations. Each of these variations has its own unique level of pleasure and items used. Talking of items used in sexual activities, one of the most eye-catching is the anal hook.
What are Anal Hooks?
There are so many people who will be wondering what an anal hook is. Well, also referred to as ass hook or tail hook and shaped like the letter J, anal hooks are considered to be the indispensable anal toy in BDSM. Anal hooks are typically metallic and are often made from stainless steel. An anal hook is a metallic hook that has a loop on one end and usually a ball or more than one ball on the other end.
The loop is placed on the longer end of the hook and it is the shorter end of the hook that goes straight into your anus. The loop can be used in tying a rope or even a finger can be used in moving the hook from place to place. In terms of dimension, an anal hook is typically about 2.5 centimeters in thickness and about six inches in the length.
On the other end is the O-ring that is where the rope or other items for bondage are fixed. An anal hook is used for both males and females. However, it has to be stated that men are believed to find the anal hooks a lot more interesting and pleasurable when compared with the women. The reason for this can be attributed to the presence of the prostate gland in the anal region of the males.
As for the balls, they can be removed and replaced depending on the size of the balls that are preferred for the steamy session. It is important to note that the insertion of the anal hook has to be done with a lot of caution. You should make sure that when putting it inside, extreme force is not applied at all. This is actually what determines whether the experience is going to be one of unbearable pain or indescribable joy.
By the way, as BDSM was mentioned, it is good to mention a few things about it. BDSM, bondage and other similar sexual activities are for those who really want to maximize excitement. However, they are not for just everyone. BDSM is best carried out by couples who trust each other and this is because things can swiftly take another turn. The essence of BDSM and other ‘crazy’ sexual activities is to bring out the very bestial aspect of sex in humans.
Anal hooks are not for the faint-hearted, they are not your regular dildos or even butt plugs. With an anal hook, you will have absolutely no other choice but to remain stationary. With an anal plug, you have no other choice but to remain under the control of your lover meaning you need to have a high level of trust in the other person before you can agree to even make use of an anal hook.
What is the Purpose of an Anal Hook?
Not a few people will be wondering what exactly what an anal hook is meant for. Well, it is used to hold a submissive partner (who is also called the slave) in position during a BDSM sexual session. As the short end of the hook goes into the anus, a rope is put through the loop on the long end. The rope can later the fix to an overhead point and this is what will hold it in place with the anal side of the subject up in the air. It can be used in conjunction with the binding of the wrists.
How to Use Anal Hooks
If you are the type who is really interested in exploring the most amazing sides of sex, you will surely be interested in anal hooks. One thing you must keep at the back of your mind always regarding the anal hook is that you really cannot afford to mess around with it. This is a metal object that has the ability to wreak some serious havoc if care is not taken. So, it is very crucial that couples who have decided to make use of the anal hook have to do so with the highest level of responsibility.
Getting Started with an Anal Hook
You do not need to get worried or anxious when the time comes to make use of an anal hook. The first thing you need to do is to get set and prepare your body for action. You should ensure that your anus is totally clear of feces. Some people choose to make use of an enema to get their rear cleaned. This should be done ideally at least a few hours before the show starts.
Once your tunnel is cleaned, you have to ready your body and put yourself in the mood. Your anus is not wide and so it has to be properly stimulated so insertion can be stress-free and easy. You can get set by commencing with some foreplay or masturbation if there is no partner for you.
The next thing that follows is the application of the lube. The anus is not slimy like the vagina so you need to apply lube to loosen up the area. In the following section, more explanation will be given on the types of lubes that can be used to ensure everything goes on smoothly.
Alright, as you might have imagined, there are some very specific steps when it comes to making use of the anal hooks after getting started and putting your body in the mood. Just as it is with the other objects used in various forms of anal sex, you have to first get your lubricant ready.
Owing to the fact that anal hooks are made with metal, it is better to use silicone lube. The reason for making use of silicone lube is because of its impressive durability. But apart from that, silicone lube is far better than water-based lubricants. The reason for that is because silicone lubes do not cause drying up of the anus, unlike the water-based lube that dries up the anal region really fast.
After applying the lube, it is important that you do not rush it. Put a finger or two in the anus and move around on the inner side slowly. This leads to arousal as you stimulate the nerve endings located in the region. As you are doing this, then you can introduce the anal hook.
The main essence of the anal hook is to ensure predicament bondage. The moment you have your finger in the loop and you are dragging your partner all over the place or you use it to have them tied up, they are automatically in a position of vulnerability and utter submission. So the subject is in a state that is often called predicament bondage. Even at this point, the hook should be properly in place to allow for comfort and also movement.
Anal Hooks Usage Methods
That said, we can now focus on the different methods by which an anal hook can be used.
Bondage: Also referred to as shibari, this is the most frequent application of anal hooks as far as role-plays are concerned. This method is considered the highest level of submission and that is because there is totally no mobility of any kind. It is also a very complicated method and should be attempted only by experts and those who have adequate experience. The ball of the anal hook fits snugly just like a butt plug. Additional pressure can be applied by ensuring there is motion. Depending on how the movement is done, it can result in amazing pleasure or excruciating pain.
Once the hook is in place snugly in the anus, you are free to become as creative as you want to be. There are those who decide to move the hook all around the anus with the use of the loop. Others decide to have their partner get up and use some rope on the loop. In the latter, the rope is placed in a way that the partner is virtually unable to move without the hook also moving.
At that stage, the submissive partner is totally under the control of the dominating partner. If you are the latter, you can decide to torment or please your partner. It is all left to your fantasy at that stage.
Examples of Anal Hooks
Anal hooks come in different forms and types and some are as follows:
- Cunt Hook: Also called a front hook, this can lead to some discomfort if user tries to use them via the vagina. Made from stainless steel, this type of anal hook is considered a favorite in BDSM sessions.
- Cock Ring: This is an interesting one as it is made for the men. It is known for causing maximal stimulation as it hits against the prostate gland as the hook is being inserted. It can also be used just for stimulation of the prostate gland up to the point of orgasm.
- Edgeplay: This type of anal hook has a set of three interchangeable stainless steel balls that are dense. It is important that they are dense because that is the nature of bondage toys. This type is considered to be of very good quality. The balls are easy to put in place or remove. The three sizes are 45 millimeters, 40 millimeters, and 35 millimeters respectively. From feeling how heavy this set is, one can see that it is an example of excellent anal hook. The rope eye is relatively bigger than the other anal hooks that are on the market.
Safety Issues
Yes, safety is an issue when it comes to using anal hooks. There is a reason for this and it has to do with human anatomy. The tissue that lines the anal region is quite thin and delicate. For this reason, it is prone getting torn if pressure is unduly applied to it. If the movements are not well-coordinated or there are jerky movements, the anal mucosa can be torn and in severe cases, the rectum can be ruptured. If that happens, then there will be need for prompt medical attention, even surgery may be needed.
Never pull an anal hook sharply or turn quickly because as anyone can imagine, the outcome is going to be bloody and painful. When it comes to making use of an anal hook, it is always better to start gradually and assess every step. Another tip that can help is to first communicate with your partner before ever making use of an anal hook. You should both sit down and talk about all the possibilities that can result from use of an anal hook and decide if you can still go ahead with the use of the anal hook or not.
If you decide to go ahead and make use of the anal hook, do not continue if your partner is complaining of pain during sexual intercourse. That is not all. Before you make use of the anal hook, you should take time to examine it first. You should ensure that there are no rough edges, everything should be spherical and smooth. Then when selecting, make sure you go for the one that has a ball on the end.
This is because it assists in maintaining the position of the ball and spreads the pressure all over during the tugging thus decreasing the chances of injuries or tears. Once you are done successfully with making use of an anal hook, you should not forget to take time to clean it very well.
Still on safety, never use your hooks with others if there is no adequate sterilization in place. do not use the anal hook for suspension bondage or apply too much pressure when tying off the anal hook. Now, go have fun!
