The Kinky Sex
There are many things that human beings find very exciting and pleasurable. Of these things, sex ranks right there at the top of the list. And talking of sex, it comes in many forms and types with the anal form being one of the most interesting styles.
What is Anal Sex?
Anal sex (also referred to as anal intercourse) is the act of inserting and thrusting the rigid penis into the anus or rectum of the partner for the sake of sexual pleasure. In some other variants, fingers, sex toys, and even the mouth can be used in the penetration of the anus.
What is Anal Douche/Anal Cleaning?
Now that we have introduced and talked about anal sex, the next thing we are going to discuss is anal douche/anal cleaning. Also called rectal douching or anal douching, anal cleaning is the process of rinsing the rectum or anus in order to clean it. Anal douche or anal cleaning is typically done in preparation for anal sex.
A session of doing this rinsing or even the gadget that is used to do the rinse can also be referred to as a rectal or anal douche. And by the way, the process is also called rectal irrigation and it cleans the rectum properly.
Some may ask if this is not the same thing as an enema. Well, there is a clear difference between anal douche and enema. While anal douche does the cleaning of the anus, an enema cleans up to the level of the large intestine (colon). So, you can see now that an anal douche is apparently not the same thing with an enema.
Uses of Anal Douche
For the curious minds, it is good at this stage to highlight the importance and applications of anal douche. As hinted above, anal douche is a good health practice that is used in cleaning up the rectum in preparation for anal sex. The same process can also be used to provide some fluids to the anal region in order to get rid of hardened fecal matter.
Anal douche is not the same thing with anal cleansing. The latter is just the regular cleaning of the anus after you finish using the toilet. These are the differences. Historical records show that as far back as around the mid-1950s, there was already a patent application filed for an anal douche device in the United States of America by a health consultant named Patricia Bragg.
How is Anal Douching Done?
In this section, we are going to deal with the stages and processes by which anal douching is done. For starters, fluids, especially water is put up in the rectum via a tool or device. Following the introduction of the water, it is removed shortly after via typical bowel movement. That way, the anus is able to get rid of the waste and is thus cleaned.
In an overwhelming number of the cases of anal douching, the fluid of choice is water. And in using water, there is a hose that is fixed to the tap, this can be in a sink or shower, and then the water is applied to the anus. This is the commonest way via which the fluid is introduced. In some other cases, it is possible to get the water up by the use of a portable, handheld bulb made from rubber. This bulb is elastic, contains the water and as it is pressed, the water comes out from a nozzle and enters the rectum. There are also some specially-designed syringes that are used for the introduction of water in the anus.
There are a few other ways through which anal douching can be done. For example, there are some one-time-use capsules of saline solutions that can be purchased and utilized for the same purpose. But as stated, the most widespread fluid in use for anal cleaning is just normal, regular water. Anal douching is a practice that is commonly observed in people who are the recipients during anal sex (they are the ones being penetrated).
Preparing for Anal Sex
For those who have little or no experience with anal sex, it can sound like a very overwhelming or even strange thing to do. But anal sex is just like any other form of sex, you cannot just jump into it. It is important that you get ready and be prepared for it. Generally, preparing and communicating with your partner is very crucial when it comes to sex but that is not all. In this section, we are going to focus on the useful tips for anal sex irrespective of the gender of your partner or even the tool of penetration – be it a penis or a strap-on.
Be Enlightened
Anal sex can be very stressful for people. This is particularly true of people who have heard so many nasty things about anal sex. If you happen to belong to this category, the first thing you have to do is to first work on your mindset as far as anal sex is concerned. You should take some time to properly educate yourself about what anal sex is. Once you are able to learn all that is to anal sex, your mind is going to be at rest.
Ignorance is a big obstacle to enjoying not only anal sex but for any form of sex. Once you are able to learn and know all about the sex style, your mind will be at peace. That is the very first step that you need to take when getting prepared for anal sex. Even after you have learned all that there is to be learned about anal sex, you should also not jump into it. Take your time and commence only when you are mentally and psychologically ready for it. Getting to enjoy all that there is to anal sex and becoming a pro at it is more of a marathon than a sprint. You will have to take your time and go stage by stage.
Communication
Another fantastic way to also reduce tension and get prepared mentally is to take time and discuss it with your partner. The timing of this communication is as important as the communication itself. It should hold before the anal sex itself is conducted. You and your partner must reach an agreement and ensure that there is consent from both sides. If one side is not comfortable for whatever reason or does not want to go ahead with it, then you have to stop at that point and then try some other time. This phase can sound easy but it can also take time.
There are couples who get along really quickly while in some other instances, it may take a while before one side is convinced. All that is important is that you do not put yourself under unnecessary pressure, you and your partner need to get it right and both of you should only proceed when you know that both of you have exchange consent.
Go Solo At First
Just as it is with masturbation, it is very good that you experiment with some forms of anal sex on your own without anyone. It is important that you get to understand how your body reacts and what actually stimulates you and what irritates you. This is an excellent way to get ready for anal sex. You can initiate this by fingering your anus and observing the feelings and varying the depth and intensity.
By making use of a lot of lubricants and gradually inserting your finger your anus, you will gradually get to have a very good idea of the experience and what it means. This will also allow you to give proper guidance to your partner once the show starts. By the time you see that you are making progress and having a better understanding of your body, then you can move to the next level.
In this next level, you can decide to try out anal sex toys and even anal beads. Once again, do not rush it. Go one step at a time and experience all the sensations. Do not be too hard on yourself – go at your pace and appreciate the progress you are making no matter how little. Even those who are best at anal sex today were once amateurs so there is nothing to pressure yourself about.
If you get to the level where you are confident enough to start experimenting with the beads, you should commence with the tiniest beads of all. Once you are able to master that, then move on to bigger sizes. As you are doing this, there is one thing you must never forget for a moment: make use of a lot of lubricants. For those who wonder why there is so much emphasis on the lube, there is actually a reason for it. It all boils down to the anatomy of the human body.
Unlike the vagina which is able to secrete mucus with which it can lubricate itself, the same thing cannot be said of the anus. In fact, the anus is often rough even when stimulated and far from the slimy way that the vagina is when aroused. As that is the case, there is a need to provide artificial lubrication for the anus. But again, this also needs proper knowledge. If you are making use of anal sex toys made from silicone, you should not use silicone lube. The rule is that for silicone toys, you have to make use of water-based lube. Using silicone lube for silicone anal toys is not a good idea at all.
Be Clean
One of the reasons why there is a lot of misconception about anal sex and why many think it is gross is because of the fact that they cannot get their heads around the poop issue. Well, before you embark on anal sex, it is very crucial that you get yourself prepared by cleaning up properly.
This is important because the anus is often containing some poop that cannot be removed by the regular and typical washing method. That is why you need to get the douching done properly. Cleaning yourself is a fantastic way to get ready and be prepared for the amazing anal sex experience. Thankfully, there are several anal douche kits and sets that you can employ in this regard. There are those who even go as far as using enemas just because they want the deepest levels of cleaning possible.
Take It Easy With the Toys
There is one thing you must never do when it comes to anal sex and that just going straight to full penetration with sex toys. This applies whether you are going solo or you are attempting it with a partner. It is good that you start with the toys of smaller size then you move up to the bigger ones.
Never just start with the bigger ones just like that without it all done gradually. If you are an amateur, you can commence your practice with anal plug or anal beads then with time you graduate to dildos. If you feel you are improving, then you can switch to a vibrating plug.
No Speeding
Take your time and be deliberately slow. In doing this, you allow yourself to actually get to appreciate the sensations and then get used to the size without hurting yourself or getting irritated by the feelings.
If you happen to be the recipient, this is where communication with your partner helps a great deal. You let your partner know what works by simply adjusting the pace. If you are the giver, pay close attention to your partner at every stage of the session. Do not speed in anal sex as you will not love the outcome at all. Slow and steady wins the anal race.
Condoms
Well, some may not mention this but condoms and other safety devices are very important in anal sex – never do without them.
